Well fogging the apartment and getting Rei dipped should help greatly with Kit's medication level. I have seen the state of your cats water dish in the last week and it makes me feel bad for her.
I agree that long run it is not ideal that you two stay where you are or possibly staying together as roommates at all, but it doesn't sound feasible for the two of you to move in the next six months. I think it would be good for her to have a place of her own in the long run. She needs and deserves a place that she can go to that others will stay out of without her permission, leave her alone when her door is closed and which is healthy and safe for her. We all need a space that is respected as ours.
I also really think you having your own place would be better for you then another roommate. That way you could see for sure how much of the mess is and isn't yours. And you would be responsible for everything and get a good idea of how you really live. That goes for Kit as well. When you live alone you can not say, "It's their fault" because their is no one else. You two do the pointing finger thing a lot I have noticed.
I am just telling you what I see standing here on the outside having listened to both of you. I don't figure that anything will come of it. I have learned that people don't like hearing what I have to say for the most part. I think I irritate people a great deal by not taking sides. Most of what my friends are going through lately are not things to be taken sides on. No one is really wrong where the other is right. We all have different ideas of how the world and life should be and some of you are really clashing over those differences. Such is life, it is not drama it is just life happening as it always has for millennia. Hopefully you find comfort in that at least. *Tight hugs* Keep in touch bud. You are my friend as much as she is and I am here for you too.
I agree that long run it is not ideal that you two stay where you are or possibly staying together as roommates at all, but it doesn't sound feasible for the two of you to move in the next six months. I think it would be good for her to have a place of her own in the long run. She needs and deserves a place that she can go to that others will stay out of without her permission, leave her alone when her door is closed and which is healthy and safe for her. We all need a space that is respected as ours.
I also really think you having your own place would be better for you then another roommate. That way you could see for sure how much of the mess is and isn't yours. And you would be responsible for everything and get a good idea of how you really live. That goes for Kit as well. When you live alone you can not say, "It's their fault" because their is no one else. You two do the pointing finger thing a lot I have noticed.
I am just telling you what I see standing here on the outside having listened to both of you. I don't figure that anything will come of it. I have learned that people don't like hearing what I have to say for the most part. I think I irritate people a great deal by not taking sides. Most of what my friends are going through lately are not things to be taken sides on. No one is really wrong where the other is right. We all have different ideas of how the world and life should be and some of you are really clashing over those differences. Such is life, it is not drama it is just life happening as it always has for millennia. Hopefully you find comfort in that at least. *Tight hugs* Keep in touch bud. You are my friend as much as she is and I am here for you too.
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