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[kylee_cameron]

this weekend wasnt that great...and it wasnt bad..idk it was just blah..

so after school on friday me, drea, rin and lindsay went to annies house!...we played with her lil sister tess (she didnt like andrea very much)...but she LOVED corinnes SOUPY!!! hahah soupy soupy!..that was great..and then meg came over after her gymnastics...then ryan,

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snitches and talkers get stitches and walkers

[wu___]

This is just a question of, where do i start??
So if theres really this group of 'the girls' i would have to be really dissapointed. I'm sure it's all just a bunch of fun to you and your girls, but it wouldn't hurt you to connect on the outside with poeple who see how you are acting. I read the comments from your last entry, and you have the right to get mad and defend yourself as being totally jsut in everything you do. However don't you think about how if that many poeple are being bitches about your lifestyle, you shouldn't just put it off as them being jealous or having no life. Maybe you don't want to look at things, maybe you can't. I dont know. maybe thigns are going so great in your little group that theres just no time to care about who you are as a person. maybe you know and just dont want to care. In which case im wasting my time. but what else could you do with you time thats more thoguhtful than trying to help someone open their eyes.

If people are calling you by a group name ("the girls"), what does that say... you've lost your individuality, and i just cant beleive anyone would succumb to naming themselves as the girls, or let themselves be known as a whole. You're all unique poeple, but being in this group is destroying that. People think your fake because you only hang out with the same people apparently, and you love flaunting the fact that you are bff's. Im not saying thats bad at all, but when its to the point of being mean to anyone who isnt in on your game, thats just pathetic.

what does that title really give you.... power?? authority.. over who.
and saying you dont care about it is pretty much saying, ok no matter how fake i get, i dont care because i have my fake friends, and we'll be ok. ive heard you dont listen and dont give a fuck about anyone else.... are you trying to show you are better than them, because im sure there are more of them than you, and acting like this in the future wont go well for you.

i know you said that anonymous commenting is gay and all that, so im leaving my name... i know this wont matter to you, because im just 'another loser with no life, who's trying to get in our business, but i jsut want to help you see thigns a bit more clearly. maybe someday you can take a step back and realize whats really going on
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oh yea... on the previous journal entry, if that was joey luna who said 'leave your name because i'll beat you up'... your a nice kid, i see u almost everyday, so if you want to beat me up, then my name is Frank Wu.
I have nothign against any of these girls besides the fact that being in a group called 'the girls' is the most superficial thing ive heard in my life.

'oh instincts are misleading, you shouldn't think what you're feeling. they dont tell you what, you know you should want'

Re: snitches and talkers get stitches and walkers

[kylee_cameron]

I dont understand why you put that as your subject...you dont even know who i am and who my friends are..your judging me based on other peoples opinion... I'm sure it's all just a bunch of fun to you and your girls, but it wouldn't hurt you to connect on the outside with poeple who see how you are acting everyone in our grade has their "own" group of friends.. its just how it is.. i'm friends with other people outside of the group i hang out with.. you wouldnt know that though because you are believing what other people have told you. also, i just cant beleive anyone would succumb to naming themselves as the girls i have never named the group of people who i hang out with "the girls" other people put that title on us...and none of us are mean to anyone whos not inside our "group" or w/e you wanna call us.. thats not how any of us are... if anything its the other way around..people are mean to us cuz we have a group of friends

and for your info... i am anything far from fake...and i know that my friends arent fake..we all have our own personalities and are all very different....so i dont really feel like you have a right to call me, or any of my friends "fake" cuz you dont even know me or them

ive heard you dont listen and dont give a fuck about anyone else believe me buddy i do listen to what people say...i just ignore the nasty things people say about me...i dont see why theres even a point for people to get mad at me.. i have done nothing to anyone to deserve being taunted about being part of "the girls"

thank you for signing your name, if an anonymous poster had signed that it would have gone in one ear and out the other..but now that i know that it was a real person who said it.. i actually read it and re read it to understand what you were trying to get out of it

-kylee

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[wu___]

the subject title.. referring to how i hate anonymous commentors too. I also dont respect how poeple are just leaving trash talk without a name.

your right... i don't know you. And i could seem quite hypocritical because one thing i hate is when people talk shit and take sides with or against someone without knowing them.

i geuss you cant take anyones word on the things they say about you girls, but when enough people say it, it really does make you think. the real thing im getting at is your taking a label that has been created for you, and you use it freely. I mean, sure, i could say 'im an emo' or something like that, but i am creating this for myself. When you take a label made by the people who dislike you, its really degrading. and to the person who says lindsay away messages are fake... its fine to say your out with your good friends, but if its to spite the poeple who are against you, thats wrong.
Lindsay, ive met you, your a very nice girl. Extremely pretty too, and i really do hope that all these people are just... wrong.

everyone: lets try to be a little nicer in the comments. You get nowhere with bad language
Taking in the good comments with the bad ones would even out your perspective. As much as i would lovee to receive only great comments on my journal, i take the criticizing ones in stride... its keeps me grouded.

Re: snitches and talkers get stitches and walkers

[wu___]

hello frank this is corinne and i am a part of "the girls" although i dont think we're "the girls" i just think were best friends and i personally dont like to flaunt it and neither does kylee she is just putting in her journal a lil bit about our weekend its not like she is trying to piss people off...and we have plenty of friends outside our "little group" its not like we think were the only people in this world i care about many many other people in our school other than "the girls" and so does the rest of us...so i would get to know all of us before you make asumtions and start posting comments on someones live journal that you dont even know...i mean it was nice of you to try and help kylee out and tell her that were all individuals but im pretty sure she knows that and i think its people like you who are assumming that we think were a package and not individuals. i know who started this whole "the girls" thing and i personally think its pretty stupid of that person to call us "the girls" i mean i know there are other girls in this world and so does kylee and the rest of us....im not trying to be mean or start anything i just think you shouldnt get involved in things that you havent hear enough about...we're not "the girls" or "the eight" or whatever you wanna call us were just a group of friends minding our own business and so should you. we have plenty of other friends outside "our group" and we dont think we hold power for being friends, i was just letting you know and i advise you hear both sides of this stupid livejournal "fight" or whatever you wanna call it before you make assumtions.

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[cameronsgirl]

hey frank..this is lindsay gullum i know you know who i am, and whether you or like me or not...i dont know, i also know that me and my friends are not fake...kylee is the last thing from fake and the rest of us are too, i dont want to start anything because ive tried to stay away from all of this girl fighting for a while, i know you were trying to help out kylee, and it was nice of you to comment AND to leave your name, but to start out saying that we're fake and that we dont care about other people in the world is just down right inconsiderate and i know kylee doesnt appreciate it. Im sure it hurts her to know that people, that dont know her and who she doesnt know, think that shes a bad person, kylee is one of the funniest, nicest,realist, people i know but im sure you don't know that because you dont know her, and from the looks of it, you wont ever get to know her, my friends never made up the name "the girls" that was someone else trying to get into our business, and whether or not they were jealous...who knows... i guess really don't have much else to say...except for i think that you should hear both sides of the story before making assumptions that we're just stuck up girls who dont like neone else but ourselves..b/c that is the last thing from true!
*ky and rin i totally agree with you guys*
-lindsay

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[mara_lynne]

frank-
its mara.. friends with tessa.. ride your bus when my sister is too moody to drive me home..
firstly, your an awesome writer.. do you realize that you just sucessfully worded a comment beautifully? do you read the responses that you get.. when you talk others try to reply at your level.. you get people to think and write like they wouldn't normally.. thats a very good trait to posses.. that comment was amazing, and i'm not going to get into this.. atleast i don't want to.. because its a pointless opinion.. but thats just what it is, and OPINION- and i do not see why people get offended by the thoughts of others.. i mean frank isn't stating that everything he's saying is fact..

i heard something interesting the other day.. when i was sitting in my 8th hour. its probably my favorite class, due to the fact that its made up mostly of upper classmen.. being around people who are older and smarter than me makes me realize that i have so much to learn.. one of them said something the other day, and i instantly thought of you guys.. please don't take this offensively because that isn't how i mean it at all.. "i have yet to meet someone who is still friends with the exact group of people they were friends with freshman year".. again, don't take it personally.. just stating an opinion..

..i know what its like though, to be a girl and have those close friends that mean EVERYTHING to you.. its so comforting to know that there are those few people that care about you more than anything.. maybe callin it the girls is taking it too far, or maybe thats just way you are as friends.. its not really up to anyone else to decide that or to decide how good of friends you are..

its good that you don't care what other people think, but there comes a point where you have to realize your effect on other peoples lives.. not necisarily mine, you do not bother me at all.. but maybe someone else..

<3mara

Re: snitches and talkers get stitches and walkers

[wu___]

hey its corinne....i respect ur comment mara, im not trying to go against what you say but...i never said i had a problem with frank stating his opinion thats fine i was just saying maybe he should get to know us before he states an opinion based on un true facts...i cant stand this whole "the girls" thing and non of us ever meant for our group of friends to be called "the girls" well most of us atleast. were not saying that were gonne be best friends for the rest of our lives were just happy with who our friends are right now thats all...and if our friendship is affecting other peoples lives...how is it...and who? just wondering...does anyone take kylees live jounral comments offensively? if they do i dont see how or why...but mara i know you said that it doesnt bother you but maybe someone else...are you just saying that like in general other people or is there someone specifically?
-rin

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[kissmekate188]

"well most of us atleast"

hahahahaha i like that one corinne...im gonna miss u at lunch u biotch dont leave im gonna kill myselffff... at least i have bridget yo...yaya we fail global studies projects

wehjqwiuerhqwiuerqhwri
-miss shaun

Re: snitches and talkers get stitches and walkers

[wu___]

What is so FUNNY about this is how you guys state..that you do not call each other the girls, however, why does lindsay's away messages or profile or w/e the fuck she ever posts online..just about ALWAYS says with 'the girls'..take a second to deeply think about that...and you guys claim you are not 'fake' hmmmmmmm

hey shaun!! haha its rin

[wu___]

haha yes i thought that was funny too....but neways i will miss you guys at lunch but i will still see you in global haha YAY! and yes we are deffinetly gonna fail the project...especially with max in our group....haha jk i relaly meant especially with me in our group haha sorry if im stupid i <3 you!
<3 rin

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[bridge822]

First of all, Frank Wu is one of the most brilliant people I know. His writing style, ideas, and morals could teach us all a lesson if we all just took the time to listen. I'm not saying that they are right in everyone's eyes, I am just stating that we all could learn a thing or two from him.

Second of all, props to everyone who chose to be mature in this situtation and not try to pick at a little situation and make it bigger. It's some what of a relief to know that people can respond to an opinion in a calm, mature, and respectable mannar.

Third of all, I have nothing against any of the people who are considered to be in "the girls" (sorry to use it). I know you guys do not mean for it to come off exclusive or anything, and I personally don't take it that way, but I can understand where other people are coming from. I think the reason why people take the title as being a clique is because you girls do use that name in your away messages and what not. I'm not saying all of you do, and I'm not saying its horrible, I'm just saying I can understnad how it can get on peoples nerves. Also why people may think your a clique is because I have seen some of you girls bitch willingly at another girl and completely patronize her. You girls are all gorgeus and obviously are very close and have a strong support system, so why make some other people feel so low about themselves? I know we have gotten past this and I don't mean to bring it up again, but I just felt that needed to be said.

Lastly, I'm sorry everyone is "picking" on your "group" and I don't mean to add to the drama because personally, I HATE drama. But can you just imagine what it would be like though, if everyone were nice to eachother, respected one another and their opinions, and did not trash eachother behind their backs? But since this is Barrington and is definatly not an ideal society, can't we atleast try and shed the title of "Barrington Bitches" instead of constantly bringing it back? Because obviously from this discussion, people don't like titles.

Bridget