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Dec 14, 2011 23:53

Say person A and person B got into a fight--a huge, messy fight with no way back no matter what they do to try to bring their relationship back to something more stable, due to repeated misunderstandings, mistakes on both their parts, or something more fundamental. Fundamental reasons are more difficult to reconcile, and it has overreaching ( Read more... )

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yumise_lunar December 26 2011, 00:17:28 UTC
Hey lyn! Been a while, and I wanted to visit some of my favorite writers on Christmas (More like free time to read fanfiction!). I am sad to read what you wrote, but it reminded me of another writer's own story. I don't remember the detail, but she had a neighbor much like that. Her kindness get throw in her face as well. But after the neighbor moved away, another came to her and told her that everyone in the neighorhood was so amazed at the writer's gracefulness in dealing with the situation. Through the friendly neighbor's praise, she realized that she have matured and earned new respect through the process. She have become a better person, and a model to others.
Maybe it seems that your ideal of "best in people" had failed in this case, but you know what? Person A have just proven your statement true by remaining to be graceful even if someone else is rude. If Person B is rude even if after Person A showed kindness, that's Person B's problem - one which he or she will have to face again. I am sure there are those around who can see the true character in Person A, and I hope that Person B will one day see it too. I for one, think I really like Person A and would like to wish her a Merry Christmas.

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