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I don't like my friends being put in a position where they feel they have to choose who they hang out with and when because some people choose to hang on to meaningless anger.
I wouldn't let you ruin my fun or evening, so why be so hateful as too feel even being around me would ruin your's?
It's been almost 2 and a half years... get over it... and grow up. You don't have to get along with me, you don't even have to socialize with me. But, at least be adult enough to think of how uncomfortable your choosing to make our friends by acting this way when I'm even brought up. Until you do, I'll continue to be the bigger person by going out of my way and changing my plans to accommodate your concern of discomfort.
If this is too much to ask, then I suggest setting up a calendar for each of our mutual friends and scheduling time in advance to spend with them, and involve ourselves in events. This should eliminate any concern or fear of accidently almost running into each other somewhere in a crowd of 10 or more other people so as that we might have to actually see one another as we turn to get something to drink.
Please... don't make all of this a regular problem. Think what you want of me, but please don't drag our friends into the middle of all of it.
I wouldn't let you ruin my fun or evening, so why be so hateful as too feel even being around me would ruin your's?
It's been almost 2 and a half years... get over it... and grow up. You don't have to get along with me, you don't even have to socialize with me. But, at least be adult enough to think of how uncomfortable your choosing to make our friends by acting this way when I'm even brought up. Until you do, I'll continue to be the bigger person by going out of my way and changing my plans to accommodate your concern of discomfort.
If this is too much to ask, then I suggest setting up a calendar for each of our mutual friends and scheduling time in advance to spend with them, and involve ourselves in events. This should eliminate any concern or fear of accidently almost running into each other somewhere in a crowd of 10 or more other people so as that we might have to actually see one another as we turn to get something to drink.
Please... don't make all of this a regular problem. Think what you want of me, but please don't drag our friends into the middle of all of it.