Posting this here because i dont have the guts to send it to those who really need to hear it.
Expectations of my friends:
- Share with me your happiness, sadness, joys and lows - I wanna know when you’re doing good, and share that happiness with you or be there to help when you aren’t
- Return phone calls - otherwise I’ll spend my time second guessing myself that I’ve somehow done something wrong or something to offend you in some way and proceed to make myself sick trying to figure out what it could have been.
- Be there if/when I need you - it may be rare, but it happens
- If we had any sort of tentative plans and you need to change them, PLEASE bother to call me and let me know, I’m not expecting my life to revolve around you but again, I’ll think I did something wrong and proceed to make myself sick trying to figure it out
- If you are upset about something I may or may not have done, tell me, preferably when you and I are sober so it doesn’t turn into some stupid cliché drunk girl convo