Seriously?
You know what I don't get?... I don't get how people of lesbian communities can make posts like "Omg, I'm such a lesbian but I have a crush on a guy... Am I straight?".... Honestly? I can't fucking stand it. Why would you do that? If you're attracted to a guy that means you are NOT A FULL BLOWN LESBIAN!!!
I just don't get it. The name of these communities are LESBIAN and stuff like that. Why are you posting about your love for guys and your bisexual tendancies? Don't get me wrong I have no problem with people like that, I mean, I really have no reason to judge anyone. I just think that those kinds of things don't belong there. I'm not Biphobic or hate straight curious peope (which I still don't quite understand), I just think you should be posting in communities that are set up for that conversation. A GLBTS community would be perfect for that! I don't know if there's many out there, but still, create one. Share it with people that have the same problem. Not with the people that know they like women and don't want to hear about your lust for a man. I know I may be assuming too much by including everyone in the lesbian community but I'm pretty sure that a lot of them feel the same.
There are communities for everything. You wouldn't write in an "I love food" community about how you starve yourself and can't stand to look at food. Common sense much? There are anorexia communities for that and you'll be welcomed with open arms.
Please please please, someone create a community about "I don't know if I like dick or pussy better" and have all this BS over with.
I remember a while ago (I think I posted about it way back when) that in the same community there was a big unroar about bisexuals posting in the lesbian community. Honestly, I see their point. AGAIN I must say, I do not hate bisexual people or condemn them for their sexual preferances (again, I have no right to judge). But there are bisexual communities!!!! Yea, you can join a lesbian group and post, but please don't do it about your boyfriend or the guy you're into.
Some people may think I'm being a total bitch by saying all this but I just can't leave it alone. I can't stand going through my friends page and seeing at least 2 posts from lesbians/bisexuals talking about how they've been in a really great relationship with their boyfriend for god knows how long and he's the only guy you would ever date or how you'e been a lesbian for so many years and you suddenly have the desire to screw some guy. Or maybe the guy is just so different from other guys that you want to be with him. Seriously? That kind of confirms the whole "Oh you're a lesbian? That's because you just haven't met the right man yet" or "You just haven't been screwed properly yet". It kind of feels like the whole "Lesbian until graduation" thing.
If anyone from the communities reads this, don't get mad. It's just a journal entry and I'm just voicing my opinion. It's not that big a deal.
I just don't get it. The name of these communities are LESBIAN and stuff like that. Why are you posting about your love for guys and your bisexual tendancies? Don't get me wrong I have no problem with people like that, I mean, I really have no reason to judge anyone. I just think that those kinds of things don't belong there. I'm not Biphobic or hate straight curious peope (which I still don't quite understand), I just think you should be posting in communities that are set up for that conversation. A GLBTS community would be perfect for that! I don't know if there's many out there, but still, create one. Share it with people that have the same problem. Not with the people that know they like women and don't want to hear about your lust for a man. I know I may be assuming too much by including everyone in the lesbian community but I'm pretty sure that a lot of them feel the same.
There are communities for everything. You wouldn't write in an "I love food" community about how you starve yourself and can't stand to look at food. Common sense much? There are anorexia communities for that and you'll be welcomed with open arms.
Please please please, someone create a community about "I don't know if I like dick or pussy better" and have all this BS over with.
I remember a while ago (I think I posted about it way back when) that in the same community there was a big unroar about bisexuals posting in the lesbian community. Honestly, I see their point. AGAIN I must say, I do not hate bisexual people or condemn them for their sexual preferances (again, I have no right to judge). But there are bisexual communities!!!! Yea, you can join a lesbian group and post, but please don't do it about your boyfriend or the guy you're into.
Some people may think I'm being a total bitch by saying all this but I just can't leave it alone. I can't stand going through my friends page and seeing at least 2 posts from lesbians/bisexuals talking about how they've been in a really great relationship with their boyfriend for god knows how long and he's the only guy you would ever date or how you'e been a lesbian for so many years and you suddenly have the desire to screw some guy. Or maybe the guy is just so different from other guys that you want to be with him. Seriously? That kind of confirms the whole "Oh you're a lesbian? That's because you just haven't met the right man yet" or "You just haven't been screwed properly yet". It kind of feels like the whole "Lesbian until graduation" thing.
If anyone from the communities reads this, don't get mad. It's just a journal entry and I'm just voicing my opinion. It's not that big a deal.