The Silver Lining
So, through a couple of hellish days and much negotiating, I've managed to establish some sort of agreement about our relationship with my ~kind of?~ estranged girlfriend.
We both agree that our relationship; as it stood, was not a functioning one, and that we both have some considerable growing up to do before even thinking about being together again.
I'm going to work on being an independant adult, while she works on the anziety and other things that kept me from being more independent. ( I have some other things that have been bothering me, but I consider them personal and would only complicate things.)
It's going to be interesting to see how things work out, but we'll both be better for it, I'm sure.
Things are looking up, and that's a big plus. :D
Thanks everybody who lent words of support! all the advice and hugs helped. ^_^
We both agree that our relationship; as it stood, was not a functioning one, and that we both have some considerable growing up to do before even thinking about being together again.
I'm going to work on being an independant adult, while she works on the anziety and other things that kept me from being more independent. ( I have some other things that have been bothering me, but I consider them personal and would only complicate things.)
It's going to be interesting to see how things work out, but we'll both be better for it, I'm sure.
Things are looking up, and that's a big plus. :D
Thanks everybody who lent words of support! all the advice and hugs helped. ^_^