[Doujin] 1827L Toleration

[kurobon]

Long time no see ^^ everyone….someone? ^^” is anyone still there? ^^””

Anyhow, just came to drop by and say that I’m not dead. Well, at least not literally :P. I’ve been busy working a full time job for a while. But now my job is a little slow, so I’ve got more time! (Really?) Thanks to KeatonGrin and Katierox342 for dropping me a line that i have

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Re: choice

[urge_2_kill]

bout october/november i got it. but giving more info for consideration isn't late till the choice id made. i prefer to take as much time as possible before settling down. 5 minutes for giving an answer? ok, it'll think for 5 minutes. 5 years? ok, i'll think for 5 years before deciding.
change for change is pretty pointless. what's important is getting something new for motivation/inspiration via ppl, culture, damn even climate. Seeing other ways of thinking leads to discovering new possibilities you never saw before because of thinking in categories you considered to be absolute.
I'll give an example. After communicating with some Muslim ppl (smart and educated, not even near idiots) I've heard the following: "The wealthier I'll become the more wives I'll have". And I thought 'WTF?!! Are you kids (ahem idiots ahem)! Will you even be able to love/satisfy (ahem f*ck ahem) this much. Good thing 4 is their legal limit.' And then I thought that my picture of world must be formed of lots of insignificant or partly insignificant aims that I try to accomplish but also misses something important that I don't even consider. What I try to say is that you can get something new while learning and get rid of something you don't need (after some 'blindfolds' are removed) since you don't doubt lots of things considering them to be absolute truth.
About who's better. Someone can be better in some aspect (but it's not absolute). Anyway is this aspect that significant and important? And do you really know your potential? Other ppl may be aware of your ups way better than you are. And if there were such thing as 'better' then dunno... good girls would get better husbands... and is it so? or... smarter ppl would be in politics... or all singers would actually have good voice.
And I doubt it's about luck as well. F.E. at job interview the academic basis or experience isn't the most important thing. I doubt it's even a 'must have'. My experience says they consider as well: 'social skills, speed you learn at, way of thinking, ambitions, hardworking, appearance, leader skills etc etc etc' which is summarized into like/dislike and as a result in yes/no.
And BTW 'no' is an answer as well. And most likely you'll know WHY 'no'. And as a result you will decide if you want to change or 'it's not mine, I won't become like this or that to get this or that. It doesn't worth it'.
And if it's 'yes' don't forget what you're willing to do in exchange and what you are not. Like you know in that old joke.
1: "Would you sleep with me for $1000000?"
2: "Umm... I guess yes"
1: "Then would you sleep with me for $1?"
2: "Hey, you are rude, I'm not a whore!"
1: "I already found out you ARE a whore, we just didn't agree on the price..."

Re: choice

[kurobon]

i think...i've to admit that i can't understand all of what you said. blame it all on my english skills ><" but i guess i can see your point. consider many things, right? true enough, i'm not really sure about my potentials even when people say i should go for art area. i've been inspired from so many people and media that i should go for things that'd make me happy too, which for me, is drawing. though some(mostly my family), would say i won't make it far with in in Thailand. but i'm going for it anyway :P

again, thanks for the advise!

Re: choice

[urge_2_kill]

more like 'lame at english wrote' situation here
and i always use wrong confusing sentences (it's a brain problem, not language =)