It always makes me feel vaguely uncomfortable when I hardcore agree with something Andrew Sullivan says.
That said: (go go gadget broken link!)
ETA: Ok, so, close your eyes and say some magic words and then click here. Maybe. I give up on the internets; it's just a fad anyway, right?
http://andrewsullivan.theatlantic.com/the_daily_dish/2009/10/obama-will-attend-hrc-dinner.html