Cutting off the head
So, I've finally began the process of putting my paparazzi in her place. I think the Thundercats somehow thought I'd be impotent to stand up to this individual. Yet my eyes had been open. After musing on what had been going on and reading all of your wonderful comments I knew not only what had to be done but recieved the resolve to do so. Not only had this become a dangerous situation, yet it was also a black spot on my ministry and was a block to be overcome in any relationship in the future (I mean, I honestly couldn't have any potential mate looking over her shoulder now could I?).
So Friday evening I wasn't leading out and when i saw she was sitting in the back with Pumyra i sat up front. Once Cheetara came in with her family (and of course she moved up) I moved into the back to sit with my boy Elias (Tygra). We finished up service and I said my goodbyes. Lady came up to me and was like "Are you mad at me? You haven't said anything to me."
"No... I'm fine thank you, bye." I then got in my car and left. No hug, no special attention.
The next day we were all getting ready to head out and do our hang out thing when one of the girls expressed a concern regarding transportation. Lady pipes in "Oh, I can give you a ride", when I cut her off and say, "actually, it's just gonna be us young folks tonight". Conversation done. She stormed off, but hey... I was cutting off the head. I'm not going to pussy foot around it, I'm getting it done.
A lot of folks thought I wasn't strong enough to do what was necessary, myself included. I needed her to do something bold and big enough for me to really say, okay, this is wrong. As I looked back and bypassed the tree and looked at the forest I realized i had more than enough cause. Lady was sick and I needed to get myself away from that. I am not in the medical field. I couldn't fix her. Someone else needed to do that. So now I'm going to live my life free from this lady. Hashem willing this will be my last post about her in my blog.
So Friday evening I wasn't leading out and when i saw she was sitting in the back with Pumyra i sat up front. Once Cheetara came in with her family (and of course she moved up) I moved into the back to sit with my boy Elias (Tygra). We finished up service and I said my goodbyes. Lady came up to me and was like "Are you mad at me? You haven't said anything to me."
"No... I'm fine thank you, bye." I then got in my car and left. No hug, no special attention.
The next day we were all getting ready to head out and do our hang out thing when one of the girls expressed a concern regarding transportation. Lady pipes in "Oh, I can give you a ride", when I cut her off and say, "actually, it's just gonna be us young folks tonight". Conversation done. She stormed off, but hey... I was cutting off the head. I'm not going to pussy foot around it, I'm getting it done.
A lot of folks thought I wasn't strong enough to do what was necessary, myself included. I needed her to do something bold and big enough for me to really say, okay, this is wrong. As I looked back and bypassed the tree and looked at the forest I realized i had more than enough cause. Lady was sick and I needed to get myself away from that. I am not in the medical field. I couldn't fix her. Someone else needed to do that. So now I'm going to live my life free from this lady. Hashem willing this will be my last post about her in my blog.