Life and my lil family... and a kink-meme!
This is going to be a weird ass post, since it'll deal with both sides of me. Life as is, and also fandom and such...
ANYHOW!
It's been another week with activities for me and Alexandra. Had that parenting group meeting on Wedneysday, two days ago. Bitch mom, if you remember her.... was not there. HALLELUJAH! So it was much nicer. I even hung out a bit afterwards and talked to two other moms. Which was nice. One of the moms in that group, however... is either extremely shy or suffers from some serious blues... :-/ She hardly answers when you talk to her! Every meeting we've been to, I've tried to engage her in conversation, since she is not one of Bitch moms yes-sayers. No luck. Wonder why? Am I that scary? And I really am trying to be very nice and soft with her when I do try... Uhu...
Since we were at the lil library close by this time, it was quite fun since I've worked a lot there, so it was a very familiar place for me. :-) The librarians were very happy to meet me and Alexandra to! Books for babies were discussed and I borrowed some with me home, so now we read at least one book each day me and Alexandra. Very simple books. Made out of cardboard the entire book, so it won't break when Alexandra fiddles with it, and just sentences with two-four words in them. EXTREMELY simple. But very important. See, reading a lot to your lil baby helps him/her develop his/her language better. :-) Not to mention you'll get a kid that loves books. Win-win. :-) We'll be reading a lot to Alexandra, that's for sure.
This week we've also been to a sing-along at the big city library with a lot of kids up to 1 year old... and we've been to Open Preschool as well, also with kids only up to 1 year old. Alexandra loves this! So much to look at! And listen to! I think it is good for her development this. I'll definitely keep it up. :-) Not to mention it is fun for me to, meeting other moms (and dads). Open Preschool is really really awesome, just gotta say. So thankful that exists. :-D
peting73 is doing better to. He's been home this week to let his back heal from that lumbago... Nasty business... But he is taking his meds and is very careful when he lifts anything... while also taking short walks to move his back and everything, and he says he is doing a lot better. He put Alexandra in the baby sitter today, and the last time he did that his back fucked it self up... now it worked out fine. :-) So he is definitely on the mend. He'll go back to work next week, he says, since apparently he feels like that would be good for him even if he'll take it easy there to. He is going a bit insane being home all the time. *lol*
Oh, talking off family, I also updated Alexandras LJ with a TON of photos the other day! :-D Go to mini_viking to see! :-D
Onwards to fandom things!
Well, fanfic things at any rate. snowstormskies posted this, and so I just HAVE to do that to... since I am involved in writing fanfic with her! (In the Tokio Hotel fandom.) Both Let Us Hear You, Let Us Feel You and Chained II. :-)
So now... Kinks. Some warning. I have a thing for darkfics, so... Keep that in mind. :-) ONWARDS!
Kinks
1. List five bullet proof kinks that make you go weak at the knees. Real life, fic, or just in your own mind, what makes your brain light up like Las Vegas?
2. List five major turnoffs. What makes you reach for the vomit bucket? What just makes you go, "And... yeah... no, that's just not working for me..." Again, fic or RL, or your own little fantasies, what makes you want to take your ball and go home?
Good stuff first... (and I went to check some of my favorite fics, their warnings for this... *lol*)
1. Knife-play, blood-play, torture... Shut up. I know. It's sick as fuck, but in fics and/or books... I love to read it. The worse, the better...
2. Dom/slave stuff... BDSM, bondage, spanking etc... Dude. One of my MAYOR kinks. Not even joking. My gawd. Fics and/or books... I can read anything and everything with it. (Also, Fifty Shads of Grey aka Fifty Shades of Shit, don't know SHIT about it! It's full of shit and lies what the hell, I get so pissed off reading said book...) Also, this goes for RL as well.
3. A bit triggery, but... Abuse, non-con/rape... etc... Yes. I am sicko with what I like to read. What can I say?
4. Threesomes and/or moresomes... Guh... Uhu... Yeah. The more the merrier. I love it. No matter what fandom I read fanfic in... or if it is in a book.
5. Underage stuff and age-difference. AND JUST TO POINT OUT!!! This is ONLY in fiction!!! Books and/or fanfic. Right? Alright... You with me? OK. I like to read it. In books and in fanfic. I've already pointed out I like twisted/sick/weird stuff. So there.
Bad stuff... The just NO-list... (And here it gets a bit trickier, considering what I actually LIKE! X-D)
1. Mary Sue's / Gary Stue's... JUST NO!!! GAH! HATE, HATE, HATE! And don't think they only exist in fanfic! They invade books to! (Twilight and Fifty Shades of Grey are PRIME examples!)
2. MPreg... I just... I can't. You can go all down sick and twisted on me, but... I just can't with Mpreg.
3. Twincest where it is all lovey-dovey / fluffy romantic and everyone is honkey dorey with the whole thing. Just no. HELL no. I don't like twincest / brocest / siscest as a rule, I do read it... seldom... but when it goes all fluffy romantic on me, I run for the hills.
4. I have a hard time reading fanfic / books in first person... I have hard time grasping that, so I usually avoid it. It destroys any enjoyment of any kinks for me.
5. Badly written sex-scenes... Oh yeah. You all know what I mean, don't you? Hell, badly written anything... to much thesaurus complex, or just not sure about the language you write in. To many descriptions or to few... A tough balance there, but it's no good to much of either. Oh, and keep your characters IN CHARACTER, please! Anything Out Of Character with any character, and I'll stop reading your fanfic, or throw away the book... It destroys any sex you write, so even if you write the darkest sex-scene ever, I wouldn't be able to enjoy it.
So... How many followers did I just lose considering what I enjoy reading? *lol*
This entry is crossposted between LJ and DW. Comment where you are comfortable.
ANYHOW!
It's been another week with activities for me and Alexandra. Had that parenting group meeting on Wedneysday, two days ago. Bitch mom, if you remember her.... was not there. HALLELUJAH! So it was much nicer. I even hung out a bit afterwards and talked to two other moms. Which was nice. One of the moms in that group, however... is either extremely shy or suffers from some serious blues... :-/ She hardly answers when you talk to her! Every meeting we've been to, I've tried to engage her in conversation, since she is not one of Bitch moms yes-sayers. No luck. Wonder why? Am I that scary? And I really am trying to be very nice and soft with her when I do try... Uhu...
Since we were at the lil library close by this time, it was quite fun since I've worked a lot there, so it was a very familiar place for me. :-) The librarians were very happy to meet me and Alexandra to! Books for babies were discussed and I borrowed some with me home, so now we read at least one book each day me and Alexandra. Very simple books. Made out of cardboard the entire book, so it won't break when Alexandra fiddles with it, and just sentences with two-four words in them. EXTREMELY simple. But very important. See, reading a lot to your lil baby helps him/her develop his/her language better. :-) Not to mention you'll get a kid that loves books. Win-win. :-) We'll be reading a lot to Alexandra, that's for sure.
This week we've also been to a sing-along at the big city library with a lot of kids up to 1 year old... and we've been to Open Preschool as well, also with kids only up to 1 year old. Alexandra loves this! So much to look at! And listen to! I think it is good for her development this. I'll definitely keep it up. :-) Not to mention it is fun for me to, meeting other moms (and dads). Open Preschool is really really awesome, just gotta say. So thankful that exists. :-D
peting73 is doing better to. He's been home this week to let his back heal from that lumbago... Nasty business... But he is taking his meds and is very careful when he lifts anything... while also taking short walks to move his back and everything, and he says he is doing a lot better. He put Alexandra in the baby sitter today, and the last time he did that his back fucked it self up... now it worked out fine. :-) So he is definitely on the mend. He'll go back to work next week, he says, since apparently he feels like that would be good for him even if he'll take it easy there to. He is going a bit insane being home all the time. *lol*
Oh, talking off family, I also updated Alexandras LJ with a TON of photos the other day! :-D Go to mini_viking to see! :-D
Onwards to fandom things!
Well, fanfic things at any rate. snowstormskies posted this, and so I just HAVE to do that to... since I am involved in writing fanfic with her! (In the Tokio Hotel fandom.) Both Let Us Hear You, Let Us Feel You and Chained II. :-)
So now... Kinks. Some warning. I have a thing for darkfics, so... Keep that in mind. :-) ONWARDS!
Kinks
1. List five bullet proof kinks that make you go weak at the knees. Real life, fic, or just in your own mind, what makes your brain light up like Las Vegas?
2. List five major turnoffs. What makes you reach for the vomit bucket? What just makes you go, "And... yeah... no, that's just not working for me..." Again, fic or RL, or your own little fantasies, what makes you want to take your ball and go home?
Good stuff first... (and I went to check some of my favorite fics, their warnings for this... *lol*)
1. Knife-play, blood-play, torture... Shut up. I know. It's sick as fuck, but in fics and/or books... I love to read it. The worse, the better...
2. Dom/slave stuff... BDSM, bondage, spanking etc... Dude. One of my MAYOR kinks. Not even joking. My gawd. Fics and/or books... I can read anything and everything with it. (Also, Fifty Shads of Grey aka Fifty Shades of Shit, don't know SHIT about it! It's full of shit and lies what the hell, I get so pissed off reading said book...) Also, this goes for RL as well.
3. A bit triggery, but... Abuse, non-con/rape... etc... Yes. I am sicko with what I like to read. What can I say?
4. Threesomes and/or moresomes... Guh... Uhu... Yeah. The more the merrier. I love it. No matter what fandom I read fanfic in... or if it is in a book.
5. Underage stuff and age-difference. AND JUST TO POINT OUT!!! This is ONLY in fiction!!! Books and/or fanfic. Right? Alright... You with me? OK. I like to read it. In books and in fanfic. I've already pointed out I like twisted/sick/weird stuff. So there.
Bad stuff... The just NO-list... (And here it gets a bit trickier, considering what I actually LIKE! X-D)
1. Mary Sue's / Gary Stue's... JUST NO!!! GAH! HATE, HATE, HATE! And don't think they only exist in fanfic! They invade books to! (Twilight and Fifty Shades of Grey are PRIME examples!)
2. MPreg... I just... I can't. You can go all down sick and twisted on me, but... I just can't with Mpreg.
3. Twincest where it is all lovey-dovey / fluffy romantic and everyone is honkey dorey with the whole thing. Just no. HELL no. I don't like twincest / brocest / siscest as a rule, I do read it... seldom... but when it goes all fluffy romantic on me, I run for the hills.
4. I have a hard time reading fanfic / books in first person... I have hard time grasping that, so I usually avoid it. It destroys any enjoyment of any kinks for me.
5. Badly written sex-scenes... Oh yeah. You all know what I mean, don't you? Hell, badly written anything... to much thesaurus complex, or just not sure about the language you write in. To many descriptions or to few... A tough balance there, but it's no good to much of either. Oh, and keep your characters IN CHARACTER, please! Anything Out Of Character with any character, and I'll stop reading your fanfic, or throw away the book... It destroys any sex you write, so even if you write the darkest sex-scene ever, I wouldn't be able to enjoy it.
So... How many followers did I just lose considering what I enjoy reading? *lol*
This entry is crossposted between LJ and DW. Comment where you are comfortable.