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krystintears

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Jun 17, 2007 23:00

Marriage is defined as The legal union of a man and woman as husband and wife. Brent told me last night that he planned on proposing on my birthday. That made me happy. I told Michael about it and he was like marriage isn't everything, getting married doesn't mean that everything is going to be perfect. I worked a 7 and 1/2 hour shift today. All I ( Read more... )

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beck743decks June 18 2007, 19:34:10 UTC

see what life has to offer first. travel, experience, party! getting marriage means you're giving yourself completely to another person- one soul in two bodies- if you honestly are ready to spend the rest of your life this this guy then i say go for it. but if not, i wouldn't do it. this sounds like an assholish thing to say but by getting married you'd be giving up a lot... PLUS you're only 18!!! lol life as a free spirit until the day you get sick of it... then settle down lol

i miss you krystin!!!! )-.:
/Justin

trogdor_dragun June 18 2007, 22:20:58 UTC

I know I haven't been very involved in a long time, but I really haven't heard about this guy for very long. How long have you been together? And how long have you been friends? Honestly, something I've seen over and over is people (especially when you're so young...the average marrying age is around 25) who haven't known each other for longer than a year or two making big plans together. Then as time goes by, they learn what the emotional seasons and phases of that person are, and when the "I love them, we are perfect" phase wears off (and it ALWAYS does), they start to realize that the person who they are with isn't very well suited to them ( ... )

krystintears June 19 2007, 01:09:03 UTC

I Don't plan on getting married for a long time. It just made me happy. I don't really know...

trogdor_dragun June 20 2007, 22:46:26 UTC

well at any rate, i'm happy that you're happy!

ravendon June 22 2007, 00:52:38 UTC

Getting married at 17 or 18 is rarely a good thing. You never get to experience all that life has to offer.

Travel, education, dating other people.

If you feel that this is the one, that you will never cheat on him, you will be with him until death do you part, and you will never wonder what you are missing; then sure. Go for it.

If you feel you need to live life and that decision won't make your husband to be unhappy, then live life a bit, mature and get your act together first.

If you feel you are a mess by yourself, why bring in someone else with their problems and make things twice as bad?