Oct 16, 2006 10:04
Ok. So. Hmm... I was talking to a friend who had this very interesting view on love/relationships that goes something like this: "You can build a life with anyone, God can use the both of you to fulfill his plans for your lives. And that there isn't just one person you are supposed to be with."
Its got me thinking thats for sure. It is a very interesting concept. God can always use the situations and things that are around you to achieve what his plans are for your life. I know that. But I never thought of the possibility that it could be a boyfriend/girlfriend of ANY sort. I am finding that hard to believe in, although I am intrigued by it. However, I could have gone on to marry one of my past relationships... back then I was happy. Not enough thats why I broke it off. But happy enough to be satisfied because I didnt know any better. And it would have been a stressful relationship, and it would have been more hard times than good times but it could have worked. However I also dated someone that I could never live with... thats probably why God ended that. But now I am getting married. And with this person its so much more than anything I have ever experienced. With this person I feel like me, I feel complete. Its a remarkable feeling to be so at peace with everything in my life. I feel so honored and lucky to have such an amazing person who loves me so much and would do anything for me (and is really really good looking too :P). And I would do anything for him too. Nothing could ever measure up to this. Sure I was happy in my past relationship... but not like this. I didn't know back then that there was something better, I just knew that I didn't like being treated that way and that I didn't have to deal with it. I trusted God would give me something better and he did. A LOT BETTER. I cannot believe how good this relationship is. So I guess as intriguing as that concept is... I can't believe it because I have found that person that is "the one". I have never been more sure about ANYTHING ever. I wish I could tell the friend that. But you can't understand it until you have experienced it. But trust me its out there. It can't be just anyone for the rest of your life. Someone should be worthy enough and hand picked by God to be with you the rest of your life... cuz thats a long time.
haha. ok. my dorky sappy crap is at an end because I need to eat some breakfast. Lovelovelovey