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[kristine283]

yeah so all my friends are mad at me right now... well all i can say is sorry. everyone is just talking behind my back not to me at all. everyone went out for kristys bday.. yeah i was invited.... i forgot it was her bday so i didnt go... and what 'pisses me off is that i spoke to someone a few times before i got off work and they didnt mention it

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[rogue1281]

everyone has their own way of dealing with things, just because its not your way doesnt mean its wrong. And i wasnt just meaning you trisha so get over yourself. And no skin off my back that we dont hang out so much so that little grab at me was ridiculous. It hasnt gotten out of hand with me, and Im not mad just sticking up for someone who deserved it. And I didnt realze the length of teh friendship was more important than the quality and teh connection. It IS always a proud moment to say Ive known this person for sooo long, but never the reason why someone should be so close. Just because you guys are all experts doesnt mean everyone else was, when chelsea dated someone i didnt like i acted the same way you guys are, and it took us a long time to get remotely close the good friendship we used to have, I thought by being hostile towards her she would see that i was more important, but it only pushed her away. I had a right not to like him, but she had a right to make her own mistakes. Its not my place to judge chad, or kristine, she knows i think what he did was shitty, ive expressed what "I think she should do" but while i said all that all i also said this is your life and ill be there no matter what you do. As for the juggling, theresa wasnt very good at it in the begginninng, and nobody, especially in NEW RELATIONSHIP phase is, not even the old crones. As for your birthday, could she apologize anymore? I mean what do you want her to do, create a time machine and go back and fix it, im sure she'd like to make it up to you if youd just give her the chance, but ud all rather lynch her and then ud be happy. Not everyone asks for help, if they did well then people wouldnt be depressed, committ suicide, have drug problem, eating disorders, or self mutilation, she just didnt ask for ur guys help and thats what offends all of you, maybe she wanted to do something herself, maybe she was ashamed, even to her bestest of friends, whatever her reasons she should not be ostracized for doing things her way and not everyones else's. And I have gone thru the similar thing with kristien where i kept taking some peice of shit back, and she never said once to me i dont want to hear about him, i thought she'd feel that way so i didnt talk about him, but actually she was there the whole time, one of the only ones by the way. I recall the last time he hurt me and i was affraid to tell her, i was crying, and she didnt even ask why she just hugged me, i told her i was affraid shed be mad at me and she said that shed always be there for me, so i know kristine wouldnt put parameters on our friendship. Chelsea and i only became friends again when i accepted her and her decisions, good or bad. Sorry to have upset some of you, this is not personal, just taking up for a friend who has always doen so for me, despite that we've only known each other 3 years, 2 well. maybe that doesnt meet friendship standards but long enough for me to grow attached. Everyone will only do what they know best, but maybe leaving malicious anger out of it is the best way to go.

[spideytk]

Please stay out of this.. because you have gotten out of hand.. this is between me and kristine.. not pam, trisha and kristine... this is between kristy and kristine, not pam, kristy and kristine.. this is between kristine and theresa, not pam, theresa and kristine.. personally, I am not mad at kristine.. I am mad at you.. your just starting more drama like you always do.. who havent you fought or gotten in an arguement with... are you going to be a drama queen at halloween???

[rogue1281]

all i was doing was sticking up for a friend, when everyone else was being way too harsh, i wasnt even arguing, and when u post something in a LIVEJOURNAL, i have a right to respond, yall wanna keep to yourselves than do so. ..

your just starting more drama like you always do.. who havent you fought or gotten in an arguement with... are you going to be a drama queen at halloween???
very mature, guess you know me real well. if u read correctly, ud see i did not insult any of you, u guys cant debate or discuss with out insults, drama where? drama who? im done arguing with u, because i never started, sorry if you feel me sticking up for someone is wrong, sorry if stating my opinion is wrong. but if you want to create more drama and argue dont post it online.

[spideytk]

So maybe I did get a little zealous in my last journal.. personally, I did read and did get insulted.. I am trying to talk to kristine to tell her where I am coming from..I am not trying to hear from you.. I tried to call her for days and didnt get a response... chad is her choice.. and I am not mad about that .. I just dont want to hear about him and all.. I am upset from the lack of communication... yes, she did apologize, but after that apology she did not try to call or anything.. we talked but everything we said was work related and that doesnt count.. I am the type of person who cant just start talking to someone after something like that.. and if i were to call.. I would have nothing to say because I cant just up and act like none of this happened... and If I did call and had no response.. I would be pissed... Kristine you apologized and that was noted, but since then it seems as if nothing has really changed..

[rogue1281]

if any if my comments were insulting then i do apologize for that, it was not my purpose to insult anyone, just post my opinion in the comment area as u did. I think Kristine is just trying to have some space, not choose chad, im sure it does come off that way, but there is so much being thrown at her i think she is just trying to absorbe and find the correct way to react with out being to dramatic or emotional. I know she cares about you all, and she doesnt want to mess anything up by being careless with words, she is just u know thinking how to approach all of you. . And you dont have to hear from me, all you have to do is choose not to read my comments, especially since you think they are not valid, which is fine you have a right to feel that way, doesnt really matter to me, i basically wanted kristine to see that there was somene in her corner that wasnt going to make her situation more difficult to deal with, but i am sorry for you feeling insulted, as was not my intention, and that goes for nayone who felt insulted. Have a nice week everyone, this will all pan out eventually, how it should anyways.