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[kristine283]

yeah so all my friends are mad at me right now... well all i can say is sorry. everyone is just talking behind my back not to me at all. everyone went out for kristys bday.. yeah i was invited.... i forgot it was her bday so i didnt go... and what 'pisses me off is that i spoke to someone a few times before i got off work and they didnt mention it

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[rogue1281]

Jesus, I know this situation all to well. Kristine i love you and will never judge you, You know i dont necessarily agree with you getting back with chad and you know it sux we dont hang out as much anymore, but so is life. This is your first time in a REAL relationship, your bound to fall and its going to be awkward learning how to juggle friends, family, and boyfriend for a while until you finally find everythings little niche. It seems a littloe harsh for a "friend" to say well i dont care about your decision but if he hurts you again im not gonna be there for you, holy crap what a fantastic friend. If he hurts you again, which i hope he doesnt, i will be there for you, because you are my friend and despite things you do i disagree with ill always be there, thats what "friends" do. I have made a ton of bad decisions in my mere 22 years, and i will continue to make more, the best thing about making bad decisions and falling on your face is seeing who is there to lift you up, because that is when you know who is truly your friend. As for using your disease as an excuse, nah i dont think so, it just seems to me that you were merely expressing what was going on not using it as an excuse but yet informing. And yes maybe you havent been there for people but you know as humans we make mistakes, the important thing is that you realize yours. ANd there is a deffinite difference between saying your upset with someone and making them feel like shit because your upset with someone. Not too mention i know a few girls who dont hang out much just becaus ethey have a bf, even if their bf lives miles and miles away. Man everyone seems to think they are the expert dont they. seems to me people are being just a little selfish, and self centered, i mean sorry, doesnt sorry express enough, its not like kristine did the worst thing ever. And its not like some of you havent extremely fucked her over before, not even gonna name names because yall know who you are. Some of you may decide to get mad at me, but as a friend to kristine im not gonna let her go down in flames because everyone else thinks they have everything in perspective way better than she does, when someones down you dont kick them harder, you fucking lend a hand.

[rogue1281]

Dude dude. First of all its not hard to juggle. i have done it lately and i dont do relationships. Theresa in her first real relationship, is "juggling just fine." okay the next thing about trish sayin she wasnt gonna be there. She has her justification i am sure. Kristine has used the disease thing on me a few times now. It happens. and she has gone out with other people!! just uses the excuse on me, and i am sorry she had to go thru that. but that doesnt mean she cant meet me out a month later. i do understand. i go thru stuff too. and okay i am upset with her, and i hope she feels like crap. hows that one! she forgot my birthday, hasnt seen me in at least a month. blows me off, didnt even return my call to say she wasnt coming. You tellin me i should be okay with this. maybe bec. you and kristine werent and havent been friends as long as me and her to see this huge fukin change in her relationship with me. I have not nor ever fucked kristine over. so she has no justification to do it to me. and i am not lettin her down either. if she needed someone to talk to, i will listen. i have expressed that in prior comments. You apparently cant understand where i am coming from. Just to maybe explain things a littlt to kris.. your friends are only mad that you are back with chad bec. they dont wanna see you hurt again. they dont like him for what he did. Honestly a true friend would be mad at him, and mad at you for always ditching them. If it didnt upset them, then that would mean that they didnt care that you got hurt or werent around. the only reason people are bein hostile with you now is bec. they care. just to shed some light on the subject

[spideytk]

Ok... If I were in the same situation with a boy and then got back with him.. Kristine would tell me the same thing.. that she doesnt want to hear about him and all.. its beacuse she would be the one who saw me hurt and she WOULD NOT want to see me hurt agian and go through that agian.. as an apparently "fantasic friend" that is how I feel.. and as in extremely f-ing her over before.. thats your own opinion.. I dont know if that is how kristine feels about that particular situation and thats not how I feel about it.. but next time instead of saying I wont name names.. just go ahead and say Trisha its not that hard.... this situation has totally gotten out of hand... same thing with the boyfriend lives miles away ...just say Trisha... and I may have so-called ditched my friends before... but I didnt go out that much before I went out with Rick.. but you wouldnt know if I go out or not... because I dont hang out with you.. so please stop bringing other situations in hand.. and Im not judging her.. I dont look down on her.. I dont think of her lesser.. Kristine, I think you need to get your priorities straight and by that I am not saying your friends should be at the top or near the top... just review the whole situation.. not from your point of view.. not mine.. or any of your friends.. from an outsiders positions who has no feelings going into this...

[spideytk]

When someone is down, they asks for help and dont completely shut you out...