stood up
so today i was thinking "yay, i'm finally gonna get to hang out with a friend i haven't seen in a long time!" we had the time all set just hadn't decided on a place to go for lunch. so about 15 minutes before we're supposed to get together i call. no answer. i drive into town anyway. still no answer. i can again a few minutes later. still nothing. i go to the place we had planned on most likely meeting. i waited almost half an hour. still not even a call to tell me she couldn't make it.
now, sometimes, i understand you have to get stood up. that's all cool. but this is the third or fourth time in a row where this has happened without even as much as a phone call. i had cancelled on another friend today so i could do this, if i had gotten that call, i may still have been able to go with him. i'm just really wondering now when to just give up. sometimes, i think, you just have to accept no matter how much you like someone, it's just a one sided friendship and not worth too much to the other person.
now, sometimes, i understand you have to get stood up. that's all cool. but this is the third or fourth time in a row where this has happened without even as much as a phone call. i had cancelled on another friend today so i could do this, if i had gotten that call, i may still have been able to go with him. i'm just really wondering now when to just give up. sometimes, i think, you just have to accept no matter how much you like someone, it's just a one sided friendship and not worth too much to the other person.