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There is something that I have a really hard time understanding, why do girls like the guys who treat them like shit?. or is it just that people like other ppl who treat them like shit? what about the nice guys? the ones who will respect you compltley, i have a few friends who have been abused by their boyfriends and yet they still remain in love with them. and once out of the relationship, they still want/hope he will come back. and if its the case of love and you still love the individual, i understand you cant turn that off just like that. but even after so long? I know its not my place, and i dont want to judge, im trying not to. I just dont understand. maybe its not my place to understand? as im not in that situation.
I think its because I care about these people, they mean a lot to me. I have tried to be there for a really good friend, but she dumped a really good guy to go back with this one, yes its her choice. and i try not to talk about it with her unless she brings it up. she knows that i dont like him, I asked her to go to the movies she said i will see if he wants to go, i told her that i cant go to the movies with him, she said he has gotten better and is being good. i still couldnt do it. it would be awkward on all parts. okay im rabmling but i still dont understand.
I hope that in the end for these individuals they will see whats in front of them and make the best choice for themselves. That in the end they are happy and healthy in whatever descion they make.
its getting harder to watch.
I think its because I care about these people, they mean a lot to me. I have tried to be there for a really good friend, but she dumped a really good guy to go back with this one, yes its her choice. and i try not to talk about it with her unless she brings it up. she knows that i dont like him, I asked her to go to the movies she said i will see if he wants to go, i told her that i cant go to the movies with him, she said he has gotten better and is being good. i still couldnt do it. it would be awkward on all parts. okay im rabmling but i still dont understand.
I hope that in the end for these individuals they will see whats in front of them and make the best choice for themselves. That in the end they are happy and healthy in whatever descion they make.
its getting harder to watch.