Writer's Block: Are women or men bigger cheats?
I think both sexes have the ability to cheat. I often wonder if human beings were meant to be monogamous. I would like to think so but well, there's been evidence for both sides and more often the side of polygamy. I mean look at the divorce rates. Do you think that if both parties in the marriage were in an open relationship and had the choice of whether or not to pursue an outside affair, that they would cheat? I would think that just having the option and not feeling chained down would be liberating. Now don't get me wrong...I think marriage is a wonderful thing. My parents have been happily married for 30 years and are still madly in love. I myself am engaged and looking forward to marriage. But not everyone is created equal and some can live happily with one person for the rest of their lives while others grow bored and seek diversity in their relationships. However, those who wish/desire to have just one life partner should keep things spicy to avoid boredom. I think creating a new, refreshed you, a you willing to take chances, will keep the would-be cheater at home. If your spouse does cheat, say what I say. I tell my fiance the moment you cheat on me is permission for me to cheat on you. That'll keep him/her with you! :)