Blarg...
So I don't know what to do.
I met a nice guy. Has a house. A car. A good job. Family that knows he's a ghey. Nice friends. Basically the works.
Why am I confused, do you ask?
Well he told me, when we met, he's 36. Not too bad seeing as he would only be just about 10 years older than me. I don't care about that. I kinda prefer my men older than me...to an extent of course.
Then yesterday I found out that he's actually 41.
Yeah.
41.
/sigh
I hate liars. I really do. I've been known to tell falsehoods before (who hasn't) and I've made vast efforts to keep that out of my life. Hell. I even told my parents about him and not come up with some silly lie about what I was gonna be doing when we met on Saturday.
I honestly don't get it. Really. It's VERY much not okay to lie about your age. It's WORSE to lie in an attempt to attract guys of a certain age group that you find attractive. I get that my people, in general, are superficial buttheads but you can't possibly believe that we are all gonna turn our backs on you when you reach that dreaded age range when you're basically dead to the world.
Hell. I'm 27 and am starting to worry if I'll ever meet somebody yah know?
Blarg.
So I dunno what to do. I don't wanna stop talking to Alejandro because of this. However my ex, Ryan, lied about his age when we first met and that was just the beginning of more lies. I don't wanna think that Alejandra is like Ryan, but I'm not about to let myself get involved with somebody, emotionally + ...
/scowl
Men fail.
Women fail too. Just because.
/battle stance
I met a nice guy. Has a house. A car. A good job. Family that knows he's a ghey. Nice friends. Basically the works.
Why am I confused, do you ask?
Well he told me, when we met, he's 36. Not too bad seeing as he would only be just about 10 years older than me. I don't care about that. I kinda prefer my men older than me...to an extent of course.
Then yesterday I found out that he's actually 41.
Yeah.
41.
/sigh
I hate liars. I really do. I've been known to tell falsehoods before (who hasn't) and I've made vast efforts to keep that out of my life. Hell. I even told my parents about him and not come up with some silly lie about what I was gonna be doing when we met on Saturday.
I honestly don't get it. Really. It's VERY much not okay to lie about your age. It's WORSE to lie in an attempt to attract guys of a certain age group that you find attractive. I get that my people, in general, are superficial buttheads but you can't possibly believe that we are all gonna turn our backs on you when you reach that dreaded age range when you're basically dead to the world.
Hell. I'm 27 and am starting to worry if I'll ever meet somebody yah know?
Blarg.
So I dunno what to do. I don't wanna stop talking to Alejandro because of this. However my ex, Ryan, lied about his age when we first met and that was just the beginning of more lies. I don't wanna think that Alejandra is like Ryan, but I'm not about to let myself get involved with somebody, emotionally + ...
/scowl
Men fail.
Women fail too. Just because.
/battle stance