hmm can you say "shit!"
i emailed shaun to see if we could still be friends and try to explain to him that i wasnt trying to screw him over and that he would have gotten rent money if he didnt kick me out.
Shaun: i asked you to move out because you dicked me over..
Shaun:so no we cant be friends... you were responsible for that.
Shaun: why would i want someone living with me planning on dicking me over?
Me: i was never planning on dicking you over
Shaun: you told me when i asked you.. that i wasnt getting rent
Me: i was trying to get them to give you money
Me: i told you probably, i never said for a fact that you wouldnt get any
Shaun:how would you like to hear.. 'im leaving in 2 days you probably wont get rent so you wont have enough to make the payment on your condo this month... k thanks bye!'
Me: i was planning on staying till the end of the month so you could try to find a new roommate, my parents said i shouldnt stay if i wasnt happy and said they would get me on friday
Shaun: ya so fuck shaun.. any good thoughts i had for you were gone after that... its one thing to leave in a month, its another to leave last moment
Me: i wasnt trying to fuck you
Shaun: i would of married you... i would of had a family... you just stayed home
Shaun: you fucked me bad.. i'm going to miss a payment because of you
Me: you would have gotten the money if you didnt tell me to leave
Shaun: i'm going to tell someone to leave when they tell me i'm probably not getting rent
Me: my dad just got paid, they would have given you the money
Shaun: I literally hate you
Shaun: i'm fucked
Me: i find it hard to believe that you would have married me, you wouldnt even date me
Shaun: i was waiting for you to do something... and i gave up waiting
Me: my trying wasnt good enough?
Shaun: trying isnt going out 1 day a week
Me: i was out almost every dam day in dec and jan trying to find a job
Shaun: trying isnt not calling to sign up for a license test
Shaun: if you would have done that i would of been happy... we would have dated... and for your birthday i would have proposed... no joke
Shaun: my dad knew...
Me: i was trying...
Shaun: when i told him he never stopped talking about wanting grandkids
Me: so thats why he told me to help you give him grandkids...
Shaun: the lady at Alvins was suppose to watch for you when you went to buy the watch (which i knew you would) so she could get your ring size
Shaun: so ya i was fucking serious about you. but i cant do everything myself
Shaun: if you have a response to any of this i'll check my messages tomorrow other than that i'd like to keep my distance you have no idea how hurt i am.
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that does explain a few things... it explains why everytime i went to Alvins they were tryin to get me to try on rings, also explains why his dad asked me to help shaun give him grandkids
Shaun: i asked you to move out because you dicked me over..
Shaun:so no we cant be friends... you were responsible for that.
Shaun: why would i want someone living with me planning on dicking me over?
Me: i was never planning on dicking you over
Shaun: you told me when i asked you.. that i wasnt getting rent
Me: i was trying to get them to give you money
Me: i told you probably, i never said for a fact that you wouldnt get any
Shaun:how would you like to hear.. 'im leaving in 2 days you probably wont get rent so you wont have enough to make the payment on your condo this month... k thanks bye!'
Me: i was planning on staying till the end of the month so you could try to find a new roommate, my parents said i shouldnt stay if i wasnt happy and said they would get me on friday
Shaun: ya so fuck shaun.. any good thoughts i had for you were gone after that... its one thing to leave in a month, its another to leave last moment
Me: i wasnt trying to fuck you
Shaun: i would of married you... i would of had a family... you just stayed home
Shaun: you fucked me bad.. i'm going to miss a payment because of you
Me: you would have gotten the money if you didnt tell me to leave
Shaun: i'm going to tell someone to leave when they tell me i'm probably not getting rent
Me: my dad just got paid, they would have given you the money
Shaun: I literally hate you
Shaun: i'm fucked
Me: i find it hard to believe that you would have married me, you wouldnt even date me
Shaun: i was waiting for you to do something... and i gave up waiting
Me: my trying wasnt good enough?
Shaun: trying isnt going out 1 day a week
Me: i was out almost every dam day in dec and jan trying to find a job
Shaun: trying isnt not calling to sign up for a license test
Shaun: if you would have done that i would of been happy... we would have dated... and for your birthday i would have proposed... no joke
Shaun: my dad knew...
Me: i was trying...
Shaun: when i told him he never stopped talking about wanting grandkids
Me: so thats why he told me to help you give him grandkids...
Shaun: the lady at Alvins was suppose to watch for you when you went to buy the watch (which i knew you would) so she could get your ring size
Shaun: so ya i was fucking serious about you. but i cant do everything myself
Shaun: if you have a response to any of this i'll check my messages tomorrow other than that i'd like to keep my distance you have no idea how hurt i am.
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that does explain a few things... it explains why everytime i went to Alvins they were tryin to get me to try on rings, also explains why his dad asked me to help shaun give him grandkids