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He just IMed me. "Are you still pissed, or are you over it?" I said I was, because I am. And he's like, "good. don't mistake me, I don't want us to be pissed at each other, but there are a few things you need to understand" And I was like, "really? like what?" all was quiet for a while because he was typing things, then erasing them, then retyping... trying to find a nice way to word things, I'm sure. so the I say, "and you can be blunt; i don't care anymore" more quiet. Then, "ok, I still care about you, and care for you, but our relationship is over. You still seem hung up on me, and you need to get over it. Second, you asked me about my girlfriend, and you shouldn't have gotten pissed. You asked for it. I also don't appreciate you saying she looks like a whore. You don't know her, and she doesn't usually wear make-up anyway. I don't appreciate you talking shit about her, and I don't ever want to hear of it again. I know you probably think ill of me, but you shouldn't because you have no idea what I had to deal with to keep our relationship alive. You don't seem to understand that I knew this was going to happen, which is why we broke up the first time. You shouldn't be pissed because you partially brought this upon yourself, and it isn't all my fault. " wow. that's a mouthful. and I was just like, oh, okay. (being a smartass! snaps for kathryn!) then he started bitching about how he tried his hardest to be a good boyfriend, and if he wasn't.. then oh well. He was also telling me that I didn't know what he had to deal with to try and make it work. Then he listed all of his "bullshits". And he complained about my parents. And just about everything else. this was my response:
"oh my god, you can be so stupid sometimes, hun. do you think that i was unhappy with you as a boyfriend? if that's the issue, i assure you, you weren't. and as for me "pissing and moaning" to my parents, i did nothing of the sort! I cried. a lot. and my parents got pissed that this boy hurt me so much. After the initial upset stage was over, I got pissed. Because you made me feel like SHIT. and I hate it when people do that to me. You told me that you didn't love me, and a million and one other nasty things... but after all of that i was still hung up over you. which is why i was so happy that we were "back together" this year. and you're right, my parents shouldn't have done what they did. but they're my parents, and i still love them to death. so YOU can quit talking shit about them. They think what they think of you because they don't want to see me hurt again. Once you're a parent, I'm sure you'll understand. And as for dealing with all of your bullshit, how do you think you are going to function when you're married, bud? THAT'S LIFE. Lots of bullshit shoved into one little life."
Then he told me just HOW immature I was, and that I had a lot of growing up to do, yadda yadda. Thank you Mister Maturity. :| According to him, he only left me because he was doing the mature thing, so it was all FOR me. Then it switched to being my fault..? or something. I'm still really confused by it all.
Like a loser, I called him. After he had directed twenty "fuck you"'s at me. And we had a really mean, sarcastic conversation while I was playing fetch with my dog. ;) No crying. No yelling. A lot of cussing. And like I said before, lots of sarcasm. Well, at least on my part. So all in all, he's out of my life for good (we can hope), and my dog got plenty of exercise. Sounds like a good night overall.
-Kathryn out
"oh my god, you can be so stupid sometimes, hun. do you think that i was unhappy with you as a boyfriend? if that's the issue, i assure you, you weren't. and as for me "pissing and moaning" to my parents, i did nothing of the sort! I cried. a lot. and my parents got pissed that this boy hurt me so much. After the initial upset stage was over, I got pissed. Because you made me feel like SHIT. and I hate it when people do that to me. You told me that you didn't love me, and a million and one other nasty things... but after all of that i was still hung up over you. which is why i was so happy that we were "back together" this year. and you're right, my parents shouldn't have done what they did. but they're my parents, and i still love them to death. so YOU can quit talking shit about them. They think what they think of you because they don't want to see me hurt again. Once you're a parent, I'm sure you'll understand. And as for dealing with all of your bullshit, how do you think you are going to function when you're married, bud? THAT'S LIFE. Lots of bullshit shoved into one little life."
Then he told me just HOW immature I was, and that I had a lot of growing up to do, yadda yadda. Thank you Mister Maturity. :| According to him, he only left me because he was doing the mature thing, so it was all FOR me. Then it switched to being my fault..? or something. I'm still really confused by it all.
Like a loser, I called him. After he had directed twenty "fuck you"'s at me. And we had a really mean, sarcastic conversation while I was playing fetch with my dog. ;) No crying. No yelling. A lot of cussing. And like I said before, lots of sarcasm. Well, at least on my part. So all in all, he's out of my life for good (we can hope), and my dog got plenty of exercise. Sounds like a good night overall.
-Kathryn out