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"On the negative side [of marriage], there is the wedding night, during which the bride must pay the piper, so to speak, by facing for the first time the terrible experience of sex.
At this point, dear reader, let me concede one shocking truth. Some young women actually anticipate the wedding night ordeal with curiosity and pleasure! Beware such an attitude! A selfish and sensual husband can easily take advantage of such a bride. One cardinal rule of marriage should never be forgotten: give little, give seldom, and above all, give grudgingly. Other wise what could have been a proper marriage could become an orgy of sexual lust."
-from Instruction and Advice for the Young Bride, The Madison Institute Newsletter, Fall Issue, 1894
taken from vintage_sex
At this point, dear reader, let me concede one shocking truth. Some young women actually anticipate the wedding night ordeal with curiosity and pleasure! Beware such an attitude! A selfish and sensual husband can easily take advantage of such a bride. One cardinal rule of marriage should never be forgotten: give little, give seldom, and above all, give grudgingly. Other wise what could have been a proper marriage could become an orgy of sexual lust."
-from Instruction and Advice for the Young Bride, The Madison Institute Newsletter, Fall Issue, 1894
taken from vintage_sex