and also...
Ari has a bad habit of hurling himself on the floor, yelling and crying when he loses a game. We played several hands of sesame street uno today, and every time things weren't looking so good for him he said to himself, "it's just a game, Ari. remember: it's just a game." And then Milo bumped his head on something or other and, while I was holding him, Ari came over to kiss him and said, "I'm sorry that Milo got hurt, but I'm happy that I didn't hit MY head, "as if he was confessing something slightly sinful.