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to the person who wote this as a comment in my last entry:
Wow...that has got to be the most shallow, borderline heartless, selfish post I've ever read. Calling your own family members dipshits because you didn't care for the gifts they gave you? Telling people if they have the NERVE to get you something you don't need/want you'll more than likely just throw it back in their face? I'm just dumbfounded that anyone could be so callous and....god I can't even think of the words to describe this. Have you ever heard the term "It's the thought that counts"? They care enough to take the time to get you a gift. You should appreciate that in itself.
And posting this here on your Livejournal account under the guise of 'just in case I lose it' is entirely pathetic. Just tell the truth and say "Buy me gifts so I don't throw a fit about it". Because if this truly was just for your own benefit, you would have posted it as a Private entry. Honestly, grow a heart. The quality of a gift is not directly related to the quality of a person's feelings for you."
why didn't you log in? that speaks "troll" to me, I'm happy to explain what went on, I'm not going to flame you over a misunderstanding. It is understandable you got that impression of me, someone I'm assuming you don't know the history of. If you do, why are you trying to make me feel bad? I'm pretty sure I'm not as selfish as you make me out to be. have you nothing more to do than judge people of whom you know little? or if I know you, why are you hiding your identity?
The entry was mistakenly marked as public, and plus, that's not the reason they are dipshits. they are dipshits because they are abusive, neglectful assholes who never really cared enough to get me anything remotely nice when my half sister and stepsisters get expensive gifts, cars, and what have you for no damn reason, when they can't even remember that I'm allergic to perfumes in the cruddy five dollar bath lotions they seem to keep giving me, and this has been true since I was only seven years old.
I have NEVER thrown a fit over a bad gift.. it... just makes me die a little more inside when I'm the only one with the tiny pile of five dollar gift sets, when everyone else gets expensive, thoughtful stuff. it IS the thought that counts, it's the thought that "you're unwelcome in this family, so you don't get anything nice."
to be honest, I would rather have respect, and for someone to stick up for me whenever that awful woman claims I did some heinous thing, or shoots a slur at me, or to tell her too bad, I get to go to when they take the family someplace special and I'm not invited because she "doesn't want me to come" and only me. I can't tell you how much it hurt when the ENTIRE family, save for me, went on a fabulous vacation. The least that bastard father of mine, who allows this, could do is get me something to make it up so it does not sting so goddamn bad. he could at least defy her a little, and bring me a little happiness.
These people claimed they wanted to try again at some sort of relationship, and I think they could at least listen to what I have to say for once.
Wow...that has got to be the most shallow, borderline heartless, selfish post I've ever read. Calling your own family members dipshits because you didn't care for the gifts they gave you? Telling people if they have the NERVE to get you something you don't need/want you'll more than likely just throw it back in their face? I'm just dumbfounded that anyone could be so callous and....god I can't even think of the words to describe this. Have you ever heard the term "It's the thought that counts"? They care enough to take the time to get you a gift. You should appreciate that in itself.
And posting this here on your Livejournal account under the guise of 'just in case I lose it' is entirely pathetic. Just tell the truth and say "Buy me gifts so I don't throw a fit about it". Because if this truly was just for your own benefit, you would have posted it as a Private entry. Honestly, grow a heart. The quality of a gift is not directly related to the quality of a person's feelings for you."
why didn't you log in? that speaks "troll" to me, I'm happy to explain what went on, I'm not going to flame you over a misunderstanding. It is understandable you got that impression of me, someone I'm assuming you don't know the history of. If you do, why are you trying to make me feel bad? I'm pretty sure I'm not as selfish as you make me out to be. have you nothing more to do than judge people of whom you know little? or if I know you, why are you hiding your identity?
The entry was mistakenly marked as public, and plus, that's not the reason they are dipshits. they are dipshits because they are abusive, neglectful assholes who never really cared enough to get me anything remotely nice when my half sister and stepsisters get expensive gifts, cars, and what have you for no damn reason, when they can't even remember that I'm allergic to perfumes in the cruddy five dollar bath lotions they seem to keep giving me, and this has been true since I was only seven years old.
I have NEVER thrown a fit over a bad gift.. it... just makes me die a little more inside when I'm the only one with the tiny pile of five dollar gift sets, when everyone else gets expensive, thoughtful stuff. it IS the thought that counts, it's the thought that "you're unwelcome in this family, so you don't get anything nice."
to be honest, I would rather have respect, and for someone to stick up for me whenever that awful woman claims I did some heinous thing, or shoots a slur at me, or to tell her too bad, I get to go to when they take the family someplace special and I'm not invited because she "doesn't want me to come" and only me. I can't tell you how much it hurt when the ENTIRE family, save for me, went on a fabulous vacation. The least that bastard father of mine, who allows this, could do is get me something to make it up so it does not sting so goddamn bad. he could at least defy her a little, and bring me a little happiness.
These people claimed they wanted to try again at some sort of relationship, and I think they could at least listen to what I have to say for once.