All FA canines plez teach me how to bark and chase my tail !
FC report is in a very slow pace since I haven't tried to do it daily, but I have tried one on one contact with some folks here but it just require so much time. So I want to put everything aside tonight and talk about something else (report is nearly done though.)
I am not sure how you feel about the title or what do you think about it, here is the idea. Ever since I was little, I had been taught "to be a nice person" and "don't get in trouble" same thing in the good ol'days yall heard from yall parents. I followed, and now I am regraded. Honestly I can't say I "regraded" because not getting in trouble saved me from lots of trouble in the past, very lucky I never had surgery until at dentist's, never had broken bone or gotten beat up by bullies.
But with what I had been taught, I could only respond to people who were being nice to me, and the mental rules keeps in my head even today. I don't know how to respond when people call me names or curse at me, not until recently my mind started able to tell apart if people are being rude or just friendly joking.......take puppies n cat for example:
A group of puppies chasing and tumbling with each other.
They saw a cat and wanted to play with the cat, they ran towards the cat and barks and licks at him. But the cat does not know how to react so he beats the puppies up, then none of the puppies ever wants to initiate another encounter again. Cases like this puppies did not necessary meant bad, what the puppies did was initiate a contact only. I want to know how I should respond when people annoys me badly, but not in a bad way. I'd like to make new friends at events too!
But also because of my teaching, everytime I got someone being rude to me, I took it in and swallow it on the surface, knowing it is too hard to digest. I want to be able to be rude back to people who are not nice to me in the future. I want to be able to fucking bark when I am not happy.
Sometimes I envy you canines
Dudes can just meeting each other at cons and events then be the best bros ever, built friendship almost instant, know where the line is and wrangling, cursing at each other's faces, or even fought. But you all seen to know where the line is.
A lot of you also get to be your silly self without concerning or fear, for me I really need a fursuit as intermediate to be silly and comfortable.
That's my impression on the canines
You all not afraid to play hard, you all are having an open, very out going personality and having lots of confident in heart........I want to be like you guys one day, please teach me how to handle joke curses, and how friends not get mad at each other from nasty words.
hmm a few close friends did told me I am more like a fox than a lion I know of. LOL
I am not sure how you feel about the title or what do you think about it, here is the idea. Ever since I was little, I had been taught "to be a nice person" and "don't get in trouble" same thing in the good ol'days yall heard from yall parents. I followed, and now I am regraded. Honestly I can't say I "regraded" because not getting in trouble saved me from lots of trouble in the past, very lucky I never had surgery until at dentist's, never had broken bone or gotten beat up by bullies.
But with what I had been taught, I could only respond to people who were being nice to me, and the mental rules keeps in my head even today. I don't know how to respond when people call me names or curse at me, not until recently my mind started able to tell apart if people are being rude or just friendly joking.......take puppies n cat for example:
A group of puppies chasing and tumbling with each other.
They saw a cat and wanted to play with the cat, they ran towards the cat and barks and licks at him. But the cat does not know how to react so he beats the puppies up, then none of the puppies ever wants to initiate another encounter again. Cases like this puppies did not necessary meant bad, what the puppies did was initiate a contact only. I want to know how I should respond when people annoys me badly, but not in a bad way. I'd like to make new friends at events too!
But also because of my teaching, everytime I got someone being rude to me, I took it in and swallow it on the surface, knowing it is too hard to digest. I want to be able to be rude back to people who are not nice to me in the future. I want to be able to fucking bark when I am not happy.
Sometimes I envy you canines
Dudes can just meeting each other at cons and events then be the best bros ever, built friendship almost instant, know where the line is and wrangling, cursing at each other's faces, or even fought. But you all seen to know where the line is.
A lot of you also get to be your silly self without concerning or fear, for me I really need a fursuit as intermediate to be silly and comfortable.
That's my impression on the canines
You all not afraid to play hard, you all are having an open, very out going personality and having lots of confident in heart........I want to be like you guys one day, please teach me how to handle joke curses, and how friends not get mad at each other from nasty words.
hmm a few close friends did told me I am more like a fox than a lion I know of. LOL