First of all Chilly thank you very much for read this post and made kind comments *hugs* :) and thanks for always be here for me and always so supporting.
Hmm me and my family are a bit awkward, we all need each other in certain ways but we never faced the fact that we need each other. When my parents starts complaining about how much they want me to grow and to expend, I expressed my idea of moving to a different state and go see things and work a different job, they dropped their jaws. They know better although their lives are not depend on me, but they do need supplies and groceries from Raleigh, deal with documents they can't read, and so on. I need them because I still feel attach to them, they feel better and happier to see me around. After all, we came to this foreign land, there was no one else but 3 of us, it's my curtsey to stay around not too far from them. It would be somewhat unfair to them if I decide to cut the core right now.
I think it's better to keep furry as just a hobby, that's good if the fandom can keep you motivated, creative, and income, but I am to this point I don't know how to separate it from my real life. I weigh furrys a lot more than work it seems :P
I am impressed that you could impress your folks after years of practice and keep on with what you are believing. Parents love us no matte what we do in the end, as long as we doing it beautifully, and alive too. A lot of why my parents still pin me down are because they have been educated by the society to believe what they see and hear, if you are a human, it's your duty to do this this and that, if you an't normal everyone will look and laugh at you, and we won't be able to raise our heads. Beyond that point, I simply worries them too much, and yet I can't convince them I am doing fine.........(money, job, lifestylewise, and my connection with Taiwan)
You have been through a lot more than I realized, I would love to hear more of your stories and learn, maybe inspire myself some more :) I haven't decide if I should go back to Taiwan, or stay here, but for now.....Anthrocon come first lol Chinese family seem always worry anything that's not already catch up or better than the rest of the world.
I will look forward to see you soon at AC ! and woooo red panda with something for me?? oh my :D I don't think personally know many red pandas out there, but I will keep my eyes out for this one!
Thank you so much Chilly *hugs tights* thank you :)
I just saw your reply now. I forgot to check my Yahoo Mail.
That can be hard to want to move elsewhere if you're helping with translating things for your family.
I think I moved from Long Island to Northern Virginia with $400. I had a job lined up that paid about $7.75/hr/full-time. It wasn't much, but I had just graduated, visited the house before once, was living with friends, and my (now ex-boyfriend) was living in Richmond, VA. It was a large move, but I didn't regret it.
I hope you stay in the states. There is a lot more freedom in various forms here. There are also a lot of folks who care about you here.
As for keeping it a hobby, I browse FA, read up on a costume messaging group via LJ, the two Furry Cons I do a year, and occasionally visiting friends involved with it is how I keep it on the side. Otherwise, projects are generally "work." They can be fun and creative, but in the end it's generally freelance work.
Unless it engulfs your life 24/7, Furry is fine as a hobby. I know folks that occasionally like to make dog sounds in conversations, think they're the really a wolf inside, and some folks it's a spiritual thing. I am fine with how someone wants to embody it as long as you're not hurting someone or doing anything illegal.
I hung out in a friend's room at AC. There was a muscular guy wearing make-up, a tutu, lace bra, and heals. I'm not phased by much anymore.
Hmm me and my family are a bit awkward, we all need each other in certain ways but we never faced the fact that we need each other. When my parents starts complaining about how much they want me to grow and to expend, I expressed my idea of moving to a different state and go see things and work a different job, they dropped their jaws. They know better although their lives are not depend on me, but they do need supplies and groceries from Raleigh, deal with documents they can't read, and so on. I need them because I still feel attach to them, they feel better and happier to see me around. After all, we came to this foreign land, there was no one else but 3 of us, it's my curtsey to stay around not too far from them. It would be somewhat unfair to them if I decide to cut the core right now.
I think it's better to keep furry as just a hobby, that's good if the fandom can keep you motivated, creative, and income, but I am to this point I don't know how to separate it from my real life. I weigh furrys a lot more than work it seems :P
I am impressed that you could impress your folks after years of practice and keep on with what you are believing. Parents love us no matte what we do in the end, as long as we doing it beautifully, and alive too. A lot of why my parents still pin me down are because they have been educated by the society to believe what they see and hear, if you are a human, it's your duty to do this this and that, if you an't normal everyone will look and laugh at you, and we won't be able to raise our heads. Beyond that point, I simply worries them too much, and yet I can't convince them I am doing fine.........(money, job, lifestylewise, and my connection with Taiwan)
You have been through a lot more than I realized, I would love to hear more of your stories and learn, maybe inspire myself some more :) I haven't decide if I should go back to Taiwan, or stay here, but for now.....Anthrocon come first lol Chinese family seem always worry anything that's not already catch up or better than the rest of the world.
I will look forward to see you soon at AC ! and woooo red panda with something for me?? oh my :D I don't think personally know many red pandas out there, but I will keep my eyes out for this one!
Thank you so much Chilly *hugs tights* thank you :)
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That can be hard to want to move elsewhere if you're helping with translating things for your family.
I think I moved from Long Island to Northern Virginia with $400. I had a job lined up that paid about $7.75/hr/full-time. It wasn't much, but I had just graduated, visited the house before once, was living with friends, and my (now ex-boyfriend) was living in Richmond, VA. It was a large move, but I didn't regret it.
I hope you stay in the states. There is a lot more freedom in various forms here. There are also a lot of folks who care about you here.
As for keeping it a hobby, I browse FA, read up on a costume messaging group via LJ, the two Furry Cons I do a year, and occasionally visiting friends involved with it is how I keep it on the side. Otherwise, projects are generally "work." They can be fun and creative, but in the end it's generally freelance work.
Unless it engulfs your life 24/7, Furry is fine as a hobby. I know folks that occasionally like to make dog sounds in conversations, think they're the really a wolf inside, and some folks it's a spiritual thing. I am fine with how someone wants to embody it as long as you're not hurting someone or doing anything illegal.
I hung out in a friend's room at AC. There was a muscular guy wearing make-up, a tutu, lace bra, and heals. I'm not phased by much anymore.
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