Jun 13, 2011 21:03
So I have a boy now. Cute as can be, good guy, I'm feeling pretty lucky at the moment with this one.
I have this friend who has a lot of similar interests to mine and is fun to hang out with.
Put the two together and the friend will snap at the boyfriend for stealing me away for the night because I'm going home with him after the party rather than spend another full day with her. I'd been at her place since 10:30 am until we left for this party and at the party I was hers entirely until Andrew showed up and then we were all hanging out together and it was fine. I had to go home to talk to my brother and dad about our housing situation, and a shower too because I felt gross, and before I left my friend asked me where I was going that night. I told her the truth, that I was going to Andrews. Apparently after I left she snapped at him. She had it in her head that I was spending the entire weekend at her place, which wasn't possible because I had to go home the next day anyway.
She's acting like she's doing me a massive favour by letting me date this guy but doesn't want my relationship with him to be all about him. The hell? Last I checked, life was made up of many relationships and all of them occur between two people at a time.
So now she's mad at me for spending time with Andrew, Andrew isn't impressed with her for her childishness, I'm not impressed with her for snapping at Andrew when he has little to do with what goes on between her and me and she seems to not like Andrew based on the fact that he's with me. It's a triangle I don't care for.
So if she can't grow up I'm not choosing between them. She issues an ultimatum and she's gone and I can keep seeing him. She becomes more difficult and he may walk because he doesn't want to put me in that position to choose and then I'll likely never forgive her for doing something like that to sabotage a potentially good relationship. I'd prefer my relationships be screwed up by those involved, namely me and those I date, rather than by my friends.
Ugh. I get enough drama from my parents situation. I don't need this.
Kodah.