Hey suckers. Guess what, I'm back! A gap from 2009 to 2023. Yikes - or weirdness. Why am I continuing as Kobaldgargoyle? Because I've always had a sense of stable core self with rapidly changing avatars, and also realizing the posts reminded me to be human, to be emotional, and to publish without editing or looking back.
I have less angst. I'm more committed to living (but not Live, Laugh, Love, this motto still makes me want to vomit).
A lot has happened. In one sentence:
I graduated, became a full fledge P.Eng, got married, I'm not lonely, had 2 kids, survived a global pandemic, became a belly dancer, lost some friends and family, made some new friends and family.
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