Deletion be damned!!

Feb 16, 2005 22:17

Ok, so the post seems to be missing from David's journal right now. Maybe he deleted it. Continue'd here.

---oldstuff---
Brent, shut it. "False hope is better than no hope at all." Just because chances may not be very good doesn't mean someone can't like someone else. The people on your mind, the things on your mind, usually can't be helped. It's that very reason you usually see what's important to you. "Never give up on something you can't go a day without thinking about."

"knowing the crowd she "Rolls" with, and who her boyfriend probably is" What the f-- does that mean? Isn't his type? David...oh, that's right you're Brent. >_> ::shakes head:: Who does she "roll" with that's so bad? What do you know about her that makes her not worth David's time? I persoanally haven't got a single bad thing to note about her.

How is she not worth his time? If she can make him happy, she is worth the time.

"...I wish the best of luck for my love struck friend. / Hope for them both, from now 'til then."
Their reply was:
Subject: Re: ::sighs::
Kevin, I want you to explain to me exactly why your advice is more worthy of his attention, and I need to shut it. I merely offered a less optimistic view than you, seeing as, yes, I have been in his shoes, which is why I want to spare him any pain that might accompany this, which it seems has started. Even if this girl wasn't friends with people who I know to get their kicks drinking, smoking pot, etc., and even if she doesn't do those things, which, I'm fairly sure she does not, I know/hope David isn't that type and I really don't want one of my best friends getting arrested because the police happened to break up a party and he got caught there, she has a boyfriend, all thinking about her, and flirting with her does is make him hurt more, wouldn't you agree? She's not worth his time thinking about her in the romantic way because all it will do is make him unhappy everytime he snaps back into reality, "Oh wait, she has a boyfriend."
I'm still confused why I was told to shut it because I was trying to explain to David the risks, and give him my opinion on what he should do. I didn't tell you to shut up, didn't tell you that you were without a doubt wrong, all I did was give my reasons for why I think he shouldn't stress over this girl, and move on to someone more available (i.e. single)

---newstuff---

Ok, first off I didn't really give him advice. I have no advice to give. I simply did not like what you had to say. Did you or did you not demand I ask out Jennette that time WHEN SHE HAD A BOYFRIEND?! I have friends that "get their kicks drinking, smoking pot, etc.," does that make me a bad influence?

We all have our ways of doing things when it comes to members of the opposite sex, and we can't really help who we are attracted to. Anything that makes you happy, I'd say, is well worth your time. Even if things don't happen, it's part of life. Everyone needs certain experiences. Let him be. And no I don't agree that it just makes him hurt more. And please, please, punctuate a little better. That whole thing you wrote has like 3 periods. Everything just seemed to run together to me.
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