Jan 23, 2004 12:58
Being in love makes u do the funniest things. You laugh harder, u talk more animatedly. You do silly things like splashin on rain puddles, or u buy a chinchilla on impulse. You talk for hours on the phone, and the mere thought of your better half always bring on a smile. Maybe dats why she is called ur better half - she tends to bring out the best in you.
Fallin in love is the easy part.. When someone new and interesting becomes part of our life, it is easy to be giddy with passion. There are so many things to share, learn and enjoy together. Puppy love is just that. when the "puppy" grows into a Great Dane, will you still give it the tender loving care it still deserves? Or would you have fallen for another "puppy" that is cuter, more energetic and fun?
Being in love is easy but sustaining a fruitful relationship takes effort. Relationship development means very little to many. The general mantra is: break up when things dont turn out the way u expect.
The essence of a relationship? That much dreaded word is commitment. what's commitment to me? A promise to make the person you love happy. that is not so scary is it? in fact, it is sacred. if u cannot do so willingly, she is not the right one for u, and u will know it. When you love some1, u will do all u can to ensure happiness for her. At the same time, it will also break ur heart when she is feelin down.
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CJ