Jun 13, 2008 16:00
As per what some marital studies have concluded, the average lifespan of a romantic relationship has a pitiful duration of no more than 3 years. And when romance fails, our sense of commitment and responsibility has to pull us through.
Well... That basically means one has more hope for an iPhone to be equipped with as much "phone functions" as a mid-range feature phone, than to indulge in a "happily ever after" romance. It is just not going to happen. And the scariest part is the fact that we all know, way before making the vows and compromised our free-will, to a legal document which sets to bind us in an "ever-after" situation. Yet, we choose to be delusional.
Everyone cheats. And he who does not will soon suffer from mental breakdown, after enduring the bitter truth that his will and ways is not going to influence the people he cares about. And probably re-awaken as a psychomaniac killer and/or sex machine.
So why punish? So what if your husband wants your neighbours and maids to adore his dick. Just make sure you are the only one who gets to eat it latex-free. Do you seriously think you are gonna buy a pair of ugly tattered shoes. So what if your wife wants a new lease of romance you can't provide. It is just going to be another 3 years testimonial for our academia.
Things fall apart if and when it ends. Don't make it harder as it already is, for you to fulfill the promises, the commitments, and the responsibilities. You can't break your heart when you make it unbreakable. But you can break your children, if you choose to only love yourself.