Is it nagging if you are supposed to be the boss?
I read with sadness that Kashim thinks I am a nag, although I am sure it seems that way to him. To me, it is frustrating to have to keep asking numerous times before something gets done. Since he will get paid for his time (if he is keeping track of that) is it actually nagging for me to ask him to do something he is getting paid for? It could be argued that since he is not getting paid if he is not working, then...oh heck, I don't know what to do about it anymore. If I have to ask several times I am nagging, and if I don't it does not get done and I can't do it myself. *SIGH* I really wish my back and foot weren't messed up so I could just do it myself. Of course if I mention that, then I am accused of trying to guilt him into it. So, I am in a no win place, and it frustrates me. Maybe I will be in a less bad mood after I see the Dr. Mon. and find out when they want to do my surgery this summer and how long it will take me to recover. I do not do well with being in limbo.