in a roundabout way it was recently brought to my attention that my lj name doesn't really serve as an identity marker for me. and in fact, it sounds a lot like a name i wasn't trying to have it be, as actually it was just an available combination of letters i liked.
now that i am in the space of creating clearings in my life and changing things up, i created a new lj account:
ihaden please all update the info :)
muchas gracias
haden/alex