I must say, it's very reassuring that it isn't just my sister that pulls ridiculousness like she does. Very very reassuring.
We realized that she ended up getting spoiled quite a while ago. it's cause she was never old enough to do what me and my brother were doing, so she'd get a treat to make up for it. etc. etc = spoildness. In hindsight, we shouldn't have done it as much as we did, but there's nothing to do about it now >.>''
Since starting to watch Cardcaptors with her, I've learnt that to get her to do something with her, you have to 1) tell her at least 10 minutes beforehand what you want to do, 2) be as super specific as possible, and 3) over explain everything. That way, even if she wants to fight, you've given her too much warning for her to pull off one of her say-no-to-everything fights. I've yet to try it with getting her to do anything else.
Perhaps it's the thing with us having to accept her as she is at home, but then she herself contradicts that with the whole ,"it's none of your business" fights she pulls. Bit hard to explain, but the feeling she gives from them says, "I wouldn't live with you people if I could help it, so Imma make your lives miserable 'cause I don't like you" T_T'
Ugh. simply Ugh.
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We realized that she ended up getting spoiled quite a while ago. it's cause she was never old enough to do what me and my brother were doing, so she'd get a treat to make up for it. etc. etc = spoildness. In hindsight, we shouldn't have done it as much as we did, but there's nothing to do about it now >.>''
Since starting to watch Cardcaptors with her, I've learnt that to get her to do something with her, you have to 1) tell her at least 10 minutes beforehand what you want to do, 2) be as super specific as possible, and 3) over explain everything. That way, even if she wants to fight, you've given her too much warning for her to pull off one of her say-no-to-everything fights. I've yet to try it with getting her to do anything else.
Perhaps it's the thing with us having to accept her as she is at home, but then she herself contradicts that with the whole ,"it's none of your business" fights she pulls. Bit hard to explain, but the feeling she gives from them says, "I wouldn't live with you people if I could help it, so Imma make your lives miserable 'cause I don't like you" T_T'
Ugh.
simply Ugh.
Beware of using your name; other peoplez can see these~
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And yeah i can totally understand that.
And im not to worried about using my first name, since they dont know my last >.<
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