My thoughts exactly.....
"To forgive somebody is to say one way or another, 'you have done something unspeakable, and by all rights i should call it quits between us. Both my pride and my principles demand no less. However, although i make no guarantees that i will be able to forget what you've done and though we may both carry the scares for life, I refuse to let it stand between us. I still want you to be my friend.' "
- Frederich Buechner