This for all the ladies out there, single and taken...
The other night I talked to one of my closest guy friends on the phone; it's been a while, so it was super awesome to get to hear his voice instead of seeing text messages or aim boxes. Anyway, a little background information on this guy... he's straight up incredible in more ways than one and I would seriously slay any girl that would try to hurt him. I can't even begin to explain how wonderful he is. You would just have to know him and just appreciate how he is. Anyway, he's always full RANDOM good things to say. You just know the shit he says is sincere and isn't trying to front like he's trying to make facetious comments and telling you what you want to hear.
Well that's the whole thing... he said that a girl should fall in love with a guy over time. She should gradually fall in love and find the goodness in him . A girl should never fall for someone who's fronts like he's hot shit, but in time find out he's garbage. A girl should fall for someone because they see the true person unravel; it makes the girl appreciate the guy more. So ladies, advice coming from a DUDE... don't rush into things because things will fall apart. If you're in the relationship already, I know you'll try to tell yourself "it will get better," but trust me it won't. Once the shittiness rears itself into the spotlight, it's there to stay. You can't change the person. No matter how much he'll tell you, "It's going to get better, I promise." It won't, believe you me. Save yourself the headache and the heartache by just leaving his sorry ass. You'll be better off in the long run, you'll learn from your mistakes and you'll appreciate the guy that will come into your life next a billion times more.
By the way, this is quoted from his profile, "I truly hate humanity, and hate its actions and how it treats itself. So, I try and distance myself from 'common' human traits as much as possible. I'd rather sit back and watch you destroy one another." If that isn't fucking amazing, I don't know what is. You'll hardly ever hear anyone, especially a guy, say that he refuses to be shitty low lives like all the rest of them.
Well that's the whole thing... he said that a girl should fall in love with a guy over time. She should gradually fall in love and find the goodness in him . A girl should never fall for someone who's fronts like he's hot shit, but in time find out he's garbage. A girl should fall for someone because they see the true person unravel; it makes the girl appreciate the guy more. So ladies, advice coming from a DUDE... don't rush into things because things will fall apart. If you're in the relationship already, I know you'll try to tell yourself "it will get better," but trust me it won't. Once the shittiness rears itself into the spotlight, it's there to stay. You can't change the person. No matter how much he'll tell you, "It's going to get better, I promise." It won't, believe you me. Save yourself the headache and the heartache by just leaving his sorry ass. You'll be better off in the long run, you'll learn from your mistakes and you'll appreciate the guy that will come into your life next a billion times more.
By the way, this is quoted from his profile, "I truly hate humanity, and hate its actions and how it treats itself. So, I try and distance myself from 'common' human traits as much as possible. I'd rather sit back and watch you destroy one another." If that isn't fucking amazing, I don't know what is. You'll hardly ever hear anyone, especially a guy, say that he refuses to be shitty low lives like all the rest of them.