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[kissingchaos9]

I haven't really said anything about anything lately, mainly because I don't have much to say, but I am going to say that this makes my heart ache for Ryan. To have your words--especially for someone like him--taken apart like that, rearranged and misquoted and put out there for everyone to judge out of context, it makes me sick

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[foxxcub]

She's exhausted any patience I might have had for her at this point.

So. Much. Word.

[kissingchaos9]

It makes me sad, too, because I really liked her. :/

[foxxcub]

There are...things I know about that I really wish I DIDN'T know about, and they all just make her seem really petty and malicious. The blog stuff does not help. But I agree with the above sentiment that I totally feel like the original haters win by feeling all ">>>>:((" at her. Ugh.

Safe to say, though, I AM completely over her.

[kissingchaos9]

I can overlook a lot of things with people I'm fans of, and honestly if she were to dance and I had the chance to watch her, I would, because I think she's extremely talented. But it seems that the more she posts lately the more I realize that I don't want to know anything else about her. But, since I don't think she's a stripper or a whore or white trash or just using Ryan to get famous or because he's "rich," I don't think it's the same. You know?

[foxxcub]

Oh yeah, I really had tons of respect for her and her career and how she seemed to genuinely love her life, etc. I don't like judging her at all over this, because I've never had a break-up, so I can't really begin to know what she's going through. The thing is, it's not just "some guy" who broke her heart, and the people who read her blog aren't just her "friends". Stuff like that has to be taken into consideration, but I feel like voicing this opinion gets you a LOT of shit from certain portions of fandom.

[kissingchaos9]

Plus, I really wanted those crazy kids to make it. :(

Oh, totally. And I think part of my opinion is that I've been through some really crappy break-ups, and I feel like, in my opinion, that since she's chosen to make it a very public break-up, she's handled it very poorly. But you're right, there's no way to say that without certain people accusing you of victim-blaming or worse, which I hate.