An open letter to men.
Or more specifically, men in Japan.
Dear men in Japan,
1) If you ask me out more than 3 times and I say no and I offer you no opportunity to meet up again, I'm not interested.
2) If my e-mails contain 5 words or less and most of your e-mails I don't even respond to, I'm not interested.
3) If you get held up talking to people and I run off, it's because I want to run away from you.
4) It does not entice me to go to your event if all of the people you addressed the mail to were women and at the end of your message it said "feel free to invite your girlfriends".
5) If you tell me to my face that plain women have better personalities and pretty women have bad personalities and ask for my opinion on it, how the hell am I supposed to respond?
6) No, staring at me will not get me to go out with you.
7) If you send me a barely legible e-mail telling me about your friend who loves foreign women and if I was interested...the answer is NO. Even if he IS tall, goodlooking, blah blah (according to you that is).
8) And to add on to #7...I will only be disappointing because I am foreign but have an Asian face, so I neither look like the stereotypical foreigner and my personality is not that of a stereotypical Japanese woman.
9) When somebody sends a mass e-mail to a group of people, it is NOT okay to search through the addresses and take mine from it and e-mail me through that. By the way this happened more than once -_-
10) "Hey baby" is not a good way to pick me up. In fact, it's not a good way to pick up ANYONE.
Thanks,
me
Dear men in Japan,
1) If you ask me out more than 3 times and I say no and I offer you no opportunity to meet up again, I'm not interested.
2) If my e-mails contain 5 words or less and most of your e-mails I don't even respond to, I'm not interested.
3) If you get held up talking to people and I run off, it's because I want to run away from you.
4) It does not entice me to go to your event if all of the people you addressed the mail to were women and at the end of your message it said "feel free to invite your girlfriends".
5) If you tell me to my face that plain women have better personalities and pretty women have bad personalities and ask for my opinion on it, how the hell am I supposed to respond?
6) No, staring at me will not get me to go out with you.
7) If you send me a barely legible e-mail telling me about your friend who loves foreign women and if I was interested...the answer is NO. Even if he IS tall, goodlooking, blah blah (according to you that is).
8) And to add on to #7...I will only be disappointing because I am foreign but have an Asian face, so I neither look like the stereotypical foreigner and my personality is not that of a stereotypical Japanese woman.
9) When somebody sends a mass e-mail to a group of people, it is NOT okay to search through the addresses and take mine from it and e-mail me through that. By the way this happened more than once -_-
10) "Hey baby" is not a good way to pick me up. In fact, it's not a good way to pick up ANYONE.
Thanks,
me