You know what is interesting? There is this extremely thin line when it comes to physicality. It isn't necessarily true that women can get by without intimacy. In fact, it's quite the opposite. The line is drawn, however, and excuse my French...at penetration. This event doesn't even compare to the bells and whistles or tricks of the trade that surround it. Women are after that 'other stuff.' We're also huge fans of the before and after. The foreplay and, aww, the post-coital cuddling. Now add the fact that we have to worry about getting pregnant, which can occasionally act as a black cloud. AND throw in the emotional connection we make with the act. As I told Bill, we're the ones being 'invaded' and it can feel overpowering if the woman isn't ready. Thus, and I'm not saying all women are like this, many are extremely content with simply lying in bed, some making out, and other 'touchy feeling' acts.
Another interesting observation. Is it that men miss our physical presence? Or, and I'm so sorry to be so graphic, do they miss thrusting themselves inside of us? I know several men who whole-heartedly admit that they'd rather 'skip the stupid foreplay and most definitely the making out.' And I'm not naive...I know this is a fact of life.
The good thing is, not all women are like me and not all men are like Tony and that's what makes the world go 'round :)
I think it's a case of "never having enough". Once a person gets a bit he or she will want more, while when the person doesn't get a darn thing then anything would do. Haha, yeah- nature of the beast.
I agree with that penetration thing. While I couldn't really imagine it, it's obvious who is (pardon the expression) getting the shaft.
There is a small minority of men who won't insist on penetration with women because they don't want to risk an unplanned pregnancy either. After all, a lazy woman with a kid doesn't help us out at all. So, you can probably find guys who will do all the other stuff just because they won't feel that its a good risk to take to go "all the way". What I often miss is the simple sleeping next to someone and going out for breakfast and spending the afternoon together sort of stuff that is unique to a couple. There is no risks, and no worries about the night before and so on. Besides, the walls are thin where I live and my neighbors get grouchy if "stuff" is happening in the morning.
"What I often miss is the simple sleeping next to someone and going out for breakfast and spending the afternoon together sort of stuff that is unique to a couple."
Wait. Are you serious about this or were you just being sarcastic? Because if you're serious, now we're getting somewhere. THIS is what I'm talking about.
Oh I never thought you were a robot. I just assumed you didn't really care about companionship that much. Especially that which involved spending such 'quality time' with her.
Another interesting observation. Is it that men miss our physical presence? Or, and I'm so sorry to be so graphic, do they miss thrusting themselves inside of us? I know several men who whole-heartedly admit that they'd rather 'skip the stupid foreplay and most definitely the making out.' And I'm not naive...I know this is a fact of life.
The good thing is, not all women are like me and not all men are like Tony and that's what makes the world go 'round :)
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I agree with that penetration thing. While I couldn't really imagine it, it's obvious who is (pardon the expression) getting the shaft.
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Wait. Are you serious about this or were you just being sarcastic? Because if you're serious, now we're getting somewhere. THIS is what I'm talking about.
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That's all I have to say. ;)
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