Lies Lies Lies
Yesterdays custody mediation was all for naught. Sonya had no interest in mediation. She went in planning on character assassination. She has prevented me from having any type of conversation with Brennan since I typed my first response to my attorney. When asked for a solution, I offered that I would take Brennan during the school week and leave her with him on weekends and holidays. Sonya would have none of it and suggested she would never even concede supervised visitation for me. From what I understand even a heroin addict, unless they show up with a needle hanging out of their arm, doesn't get supervised visitation.
When she brought up the event from August 8-10 she left out that she had called the police and it was at her direction those events happened. She also left out that even before I was put behind the locked doors she was at the police station trying to get a copy of the police report. Her time line was all over the place.
She added that Brennan did not want to see me, to speak with me or have anything to do with me because of what I have done. Their lousy living conditions are all my fault I suppose. It has nothing to do with her bad planning (since January). Or the fact that she has drilled her story into his head through constant repetition. Friends and family report she has been reciting the same mantra of lies for months.
Oh one other thing, I think she is absolutely STUPID because she placed Brennan in jeopardy and I am sure she may not even have a clue that she did it. I think she forgot that at the beginning of mediation the mediator told us that if he heard anything which might cause anyone involved harm, he would be obligated to report it.
After listening to her spew the same lies as she has recited to my friends and family over and over and over for well over an hour. I was listing the things which concerned me, like the fact that the barn where they lived had no air conditioning, and also no heat. No Kitchen. No emergency exit. Only one entrance to the second floor space where she was living - which is a flight of stairs - 30 steps straight up. I never even mentioned the bugs which inhabit the walls (I helped finish this space years ago - it was never intended as living space.) I mentioned how Sonya herself was afraid to stay there alone yet she left Brennan there alone daily all summer long.
[interruption]
Well, Sonya decides to interrupt and counter with the story that she discovered Brennan is sleeping with a knife under his pillow. When the mediator asked if she had talked to him about it, she said she hadn't. When I was stunned and asked why not, she tried to say 'we' had purchased the knife for him. I stopped her short and she admitted she had purchased the knife for him as a Christmas present.
In her eagerness to disparage me, she may well have caused the next event to take place. I'm praying Brennan doesn't end up in the foster care system. I can't understand why she is trying to destroy his relationship with me. There is such anger and evil in her and she'll hurt anyone or anything in her path if she believes it may cause me any pain. She has complete disregard for anything aside from her goal.
Oh and yes, she did bring up that I am a gay porn star. Well, IF I am really a gay porn star, I must also be a Grammy winning singer, an American Idol runner up, a local painter, a local deejay, a local restauranteur and a magazine publisher. I guess when you develop a web site you actually become the person or business for whom you are working. I guess in her case, when working for CraftedCollections.com, you might sing the classic "I'm a little teapot..."
Please say a prayer that her hate comes to an end before my children are as bitter and angry as she is. I'd hate to think they might never forgive her once they know the truth. There is really no hope for her. She does appear to be eating well though. I saw where the 60 lbs I lost have gone.
When she brought up the event from August 8-10 she left out that she had called the police and it was at her direction those events happened. She also left out that even before I was put behind the locked doors she was at the police station trying to get a copy of the police report. Her time line was all over the place.
She added that Brennan did not want to see me, to speak with me or have anything to do with me because of what I have done. Their lousy living conditions are all my fault I suppose. It has nothing to do with her bad planning (since January). Or the fact that she has drilled her story into his head through constant repetition. Friends and family report she has been reciting the same mantra of lies for months.
Oh one other thing, I think she is absolutely STUPID because she placed Brennan in jeopardy and I am sure she may not even have a clue that she did it. I think she forgot that at the beginning of mediation the mediator told us that if he heard anything which might cause anyone involved harm, he would be obligated to report it.
After listening to her spew the same lies as she has recited to my friends and family over and over and over for well over an hour. I was listing the things which concerned me, like the fact that the barn where they lived had no air conditioning, and also no heat. No Kitchen. No emergency exit. Only one entrance to the second floor space where she was living - which is a flight of stairs - 30 steps straight up. I never even mentioned the bugs which inhabit the walls (I helped finish this space years ago - it was never intended as living space.) I mentioned how Sonya herself was afraid to stay there alone yet she left Brennan there alone daily all summer long.
[interruption]
Well, Sonya decides to interrupt and counter with the story that she discovered Brennan is sleeping with a knife under his pillow. When the mediator asked if she had talked to him about it, she said she hadn't. When I was stunned and asked why not, she tried to say 'we' had purchased the knife for him. I stopped her short and she admitted she had purchased the knife for him as a Christmas present.
In her eagerness to disparage me, she may well have caused the next event to take place. I'm praying Brennan doesn't end up in the foster care system. I can't understand why she is trying to destroy his relationship with me. There is such anger and evil in her and she'll hurt anyone or anything in her path if she believes it may cause me any pain. She has complete disregard for anything aside from her goal.
Oh and yes, she did bring up that I am a gay porn star. Well, IF I am really a gay porn star, I must also be a Grammy winning singer, an American Idol runner up, a local painter, a local deejay, a local restauranteur and a magazine publisher. I guess when you develop a web site you actually become the person or business for whom you are working. I guess in her case, when working for CraftedCollections.com, you might sing the classic "I'm a little teapot..."
Please say a prayer that her hate comes to an end before my children are as bitter and angry as she is. I'd hate to think they might never forgive her once they know the truth. There is really no hope for her. She does appear to be eating well though. I saw where the 60 lbs I lost have gone.