I am just going to ramble and vent.... And this will probably only make complete sense to Boy B
You know what I am sick of? Demi-feminist women who want to have their cake ane eat it too.
I know what you are thinking, "He didn't give me a chance to guess!"
Too bad.
I hate when these women think they should be treated special no matter how they act and think they are justified in inconveniencing others around them in order to express just how needy they can be. I hate when demi-fems drive a man to the insane bycontinuously pushing his buttons, purposely getting under their skin, and when the damage is done and they have fulfilled their twisted need for chaos, they are not willing to own up to the repercussions of their own actions.
These attention mongers rant and rave about the lack of real gentlemen in the world, and at the same time, fail to realize they are the ones ultimately responsible for how they get treated. I for one am not sorry in the least for how I treat the demi-fems described above, the self proclaimed divas, and girls in general who refuse to use their brain to better themselves, and instead rely on a quote-unquote Gentleman to do it for them. Call me jaded, but I think if you don't respect yourself as a whole, including your mind, your manners, your body, and your attitude, you do not deserve to be treated with the same amount of dignity and civility of those who do. You would be surprised how much of a gentleman the ones you think are jerks really are.
I stand by my convictions in saying that Boy B is in the right 100% in the following situation:
Say that Boy A and Girl A are not getting along[after a night at the bar where Girl A repeatedly brings up Boy A's exgf and unjustified accusations of Boy A planning on leaving her for the ex]. For some reason. For whatever reason. Boy A is [still after all this] driving Girl A back to her car. Girl A, in an attempt to make her anger and frustration with Boy A known in the most obvious and non-subtle manner, jumps out of the car as soon as it stops without looking back. Boy A then gets upset at Girl A, and floors it... leaving Girl A in an empty college parking lot at night (unbeknownst to him at the time) without a snowbrush. Girl A spends 20 minutes in the dark parking lot letting her car defrost.
Alright, so the events between Boy A and Girl A were bad on both sides. Boy A and Girl A were both stupid, and did stupid things instead of handling things like adults... However, Boy B comes along with a commentary about "Well, you would've done the same thing..." Thereby saying that the situations are equal
I will further my position as being Boy B and say Girl A got off easy, especially seeing as how she truly believes she is a victim and deserves no (and received no) retaliatory action. Girl A is too thick headed to see that just as she hopped out of the car without a second thought "in the most obvious and non-subtle manner" and "not looking back", she right there granted Boy A permission to leave. More-so, she without words, told him to leave. Looking at the situation in this light, how is Boy A in the wrong for leaving when every action by Girl A told him that she wanted nothing more to do with him for at least the rest of the night. Sunlight or pitch black, Beverly Hills or Spanish Harlem, when Girl A tells Boy A to leave, Boy A has every right to leave. Anything that happens to her from there on is her own doing. Girl A wanted to be left alone. Boy A was a gentleman and gave her all that she asked for.
Don't bite the hand that feeds.....
On the flip side of anger though, Girl A usually is a really smart, level headed, and all around great girlfriend to Boy A and a good friend to Boy B when outside influences are not involved in her decision making.... and when she is not calling Boy B scum.
I know what you are thinking, "He didn't give me a chance to guess!"
Too bad.
I hate when these women think they should be treated special no matter how they act and think they are justified in inconveniencing others around them in order to express just how needy they can be. I hate when demi-fems drive a man to the insane bycontinuously pushing his buttons, purposely getting under their skin, and when the damage is done and they have fulfilled their twisted need for chaos, they are not willing to own up to the repercussions of their own actions.
These attention mongers rant and rave about the lack of real gentlemen in the world, and at the same time, fail to realize they are the ones ultimately responsible for how they get treated. I for one am not sorry in the least for how I treat the demi-fems described above, the self proclaimed divas, and girls in general who refuse to use their brain to better themselves, and instead rely on a quote-unquote Gentleman to do it for them. Call me jaded, but I think if you don't respect yourself as a whole, including your mind, your manners, your body, and your attitude, you do not deserve to be treated with the same amount of dignity and civility of those who do. You would be surprised how much of a gentleman the ones you think are jerks really are.
I stand by my convictions in saying that Boy B is in the right 100% in the following situation:
Say that Boy A and Girl A are not getting along[after a night at the bar where Girl A repeatedly brings up Boy A's exgf and unjustified accusations of Boy A planning on leaving her for the ex]. For some reason. For whatever reason. Boy A is [still after all this] driving Girl A back to her car. Girl A, in an attempt to make her anger and frustration with Boy A known in the most obvious and non-subtle manner, jumps out of the car as soon as it stops without looking back. Boy A then gets upset at Girl A, and floors it... leaving Girl A in an empty college parking lot at night (unbeknownst to him at the time) without a snowbrush. Girl A spends 20 minutes in the dark parking lot letting her car defrost.
Alright, so the events between Boy A and Girl A were bad on both sides. Boy A and Girl A were both stupid, and did stupid things instead of handling things like adults... However, Boy B comes along with a commentary about "Well, you would've done the same thing..." Thereby saying that the situations are equal
I will further my position as being Boy B and say Girl A got off easy, especially seeing as how she truly believes she is a victim and deserves no (and received no) retaliatory action. Girl A is too thick headed to see that just as she hopped out of the car without a second thought "in the most obvious and non-subtle manner" and "not looking back", she right there granted Boy A permission to leave. More-so, she without words, told him to leave. Looking at the situation in this light, how is Boy A in the wrong for leaving when every action by Girl A told him that she wanted nothing more to do with him for at least the rest of the night. Sunlight or pitch black, Beverly Hills or Spanish Harlem, when Girl A tells Boy A to leave, Boy A has every right to leave. Anything that happens to her from there on is her own doing. Girl A wanted to be left alone. Boy A was a gentleman and gave her all that she asked for.
Don't bite the hand that feeds.....
On the flip side of anger though, Girl A usually is a really smart, level headed, and all around great girlfriend to Boy A and a good friend to Boy B when outside influences are not involved in her decision making.... and when she is not calling Boy B scum.