second thoughts
on moving in with alex. he is just too flakey, messy and such. if im already having doubts about it before i even move IN, how am i gonna feel when im actually there?
reasons TO move there:
its a bit more independent
he is my best friend
its very relaxed environment
paying rent (part of maturity)
my own space
no real rules
reasons NO to move:
he is my best friend and it could ruin things
alex is a flake.
he just likes to sit at home, smoke pot and play games and is never willing to do anything too fun
messy
im afraid he wont keep up on his half of the bills
pretty noisy place sometimes. has a bunch of people over a lot.
smokes weed inside the house (good AND bad. good for the fun of it, bad for my lungs)
smokes cigs OUTSIDE and the inside can get a bit smelly sometimes
he doesnt seem TOO excited about me moving in there.
isnt really willing to help me out at all (other than actually giving me a place to stay...he just is...THERE)
id be moving away from envy
rent is 400, and if i stay here with envy and her parents any more i decided i will pay rent to them and they only want like 50-100 bucks plus help with chores. that could help me save up for my OWN place without anyone else and my own pad in the coming months :D
i think its best for me to just stay here for now. the cons outweigh the pros for sure.
reasons TO move there:
its a bit more independent
he is my best friend
its very relaxed environment
paying rent (part of maturity)
my own space
no real rules
reasons NO to move:
he is my best friend and it could ruin things
alex is a flake.
he just likes to sit at home, smoke pot and play games and is never willing to do anything too fun
messy
im afraid he wont keep up on his half of the bills
pretty noisy place sometimes. has a bunch of people over a lot.
smokes weed inside the house (good AND bad. good for the fun of it, bad for my lungs)
smokes cigs OUTSIDE and the inside can get a bit smelly sometimes
he doesnt seem TOO excited about me moving in there.
isnt really willing to help me out at all (other than actually giving me a place to stay...he just is...THERE)
id be moving away from envy
rent is 400, and if i stay here with envy and her parents any more i decided i will pay rent to them and they only want like 50-100 bucks plus help with chores. that could help me save up for my OWN place without anyone else and my own pad in the coming months :D
i think its best for me to just stay here for now. the cons outweigh the pros for sure.