Lesson #1: Never date some one from the Internet!
Being the goober that I am sometimes, I did not heed this lesson Saturday night. I agreed to go out with what seemed te be a decent, fun loving young lady. Unfortunately, she turned out to be obsessive and clingy. She kepty going on about how she thinks I'm gonna be a good husband for her, and that our kids will be perfect. By gawd, I almost ran the hell out of the Olive Garden! (The breadsticks are too delicious to just leave behind though.)
Anyways, I feel trapped, she wants to continue seeing me, and I'm too much a coward to tell her I don't want to go out EVER again. (Call it me being too nice a guy to want to hurt anybody's feelings.) But I don't want to be obligated to marriage after one date, and if she has her way, that's how it's gonna end up. I know at some point I want to settle down, and I was ready to do that last year (circumstances did not work out the way I wanted, but that's life), but these days, I'm not looking at the looooooong term, more like the short to medium term, and seeing where it goes from there. If things work out for a long term, the hey,
GAH!!! I don't know what to do!!!
Any advice of how I can get out of this with my dignity and most of my limbs intact???
Anyways, I feel trapped, she wants to continue seeing me, and I'm too much a coward to tell her I don't want to go out EVER again. (Call it me being too nice a guy to want to hurt anybody's feelings.) But I don't want to be obligated to marriage after one date, and if she has her way, that's how it's gonna end up. I know at some point I want to settle down, and I was ready to do that last year (circumstances did not work out the way I wanted, but that's life), but these days, I'm not looking at the looooooong term, more like the short to medium term, and seeing where it goes from there. If things work out for a long term, the hey,
GAH!!! I don't know what to do!!!
Any advice of how I can get out of this with my dignity and most of my limbs intact???