Message to the Universe

[kindredsgirl]

I understand this now:

People are taking/have taken me for granted because *I* *LET* *THEM*

I need to stop.

I am stopping NOW. UNIVERSE, I hope you are listening!

Comments

[polydad]

I agree with and admire your intention. Implementing it is likely to be very difficult; like many spectra, discovering you're a bit far off on this side over here makes it easy to try to move *way* over *there*, or alternatively to move a very tiny bit and think that it's a great deal

[kindredsgirl]

I have no intention of drying up my "milk of human kindness." I want to find a way to love people generously without encouraging them to forget to value me and make my needs and desires the lowest priority.

*hugs*

L

[polydad]

*chuckle* Excellent idea. When you have it down, let me know if you decide to give lessons.

love,

Joel

[dawnd]

Agreeing with both WDC above, and Joel, here. This balance is difficult, and if you can get it down and give lessons, you'd have a great business idea!

(hugs) And as usual, I am worried about similar sorts of things in my own life. Gee, what a shock!

[sheelangig]

Lovely plan. I'll sign up for the lessons, too, because it's an ongoing balancing act for me. Maybe weekly support groups, sort of like Weight Watchers?

Life is complicated. I think the hardest part could be figuring out the insides of our own heads.

[polydad]

THey're klein bottles, you know. HOw do you define "inside?"

hugs,

JOel