The Biggest Loser I Have the Misfortune of Knowing...

Sep 03, 2004 12:19

Is John Stanfield. He is the ex-boyfriend of my good friend Tara. He is also the father of her two children.

I didn't like him from the moment I met him. I mean, he is nice to me, and I to him, for Tara's sake.

He won't hold a job, has used Tara and her family, cheated on her several times, and is an overall childish, selfish asswipe.

He has two children with her! Great kids, JP and Gracie.

Tara is one of the most loving, thoughtful and selfless people I have ever met. She is like a sister to me. I actually met her because she was best friends with my little sister when they were kids.

It breaks my heart to see her go through this. I wouldn't say she is co-dependent in the truest sense of the word, because she takes care of herself annd her children quite well. But she has that Jerry McGuire syndrome - she cannot be alone. So she would rather settle for the biggest loser in the galaxy.

She is being very strong now. She is staying away from him as much as she can (I mean they do have kids together.) He continues to think he still "has" her, thinking she's waiting for him to come back. She says she will never take him back, and I hope to God she keeps her word.

GRRRRRR It makes me so angry just thinking about it! I hate that guy!
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