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hello...
i'm still feeling unsettled. lol.
today we took our exams, and this dude was in my seat. i went up to him to say that was my seat and he went "so?" with an almost as equivalent fucked up face.
because of that, my classmate got a little pissed off so she told him again that it was my seat. after that they got to a little tiff, where my classmate was saying in mandarin how he was sitting in my seat and all that. the dude, though malay understood chinese and when my classmate said that she knew he did but she couldn't care less he got up and started swearing. very loudly of course, and he threatened to fight with her, or anyone else. saying "if you're not happy, we'll settle this later".
i took my exam in another room, eventually and when i was done, i went downstairs to see my classmate beaten up. and the dude, gone.
apparently she had tried to talk to him nicely, and he whacked her head against the wall, about 3 times. get this, yes you are reading about a guy hitting a girl. though yan is a butch, but she's still a girl.
i abhore men who hit women, and over such a tiny matter like this. perhaps we're gonna take it to the cops. but i've heard about the dude having some sort of problem at home. it wasn't right at all for him to hit someone, even if he had some other problem, it isn't an excuse. so maybe he flared... but... yan had a swollen head, all that just because he flared?
i don't know, on one hand, i think even if this gets into a police case, good for him, serves him right. you hit someone, you pay for the consequences. on one hand i think that perhaps the consequences may be too much to bear, what if he goes to jail... what about his family. but then in the first place, if you know you have a family thats waiting for you to look after them you freakin' think about your actions and the consequences, you don't hit someone over a chair.
i still ultimately think that family problems aren't an excuse and if yan's family decide to charge him or if they make a police report and the police charges him, either way he's pretty much a goner.
but we're still classmates why turn matters to such huge issues?
yan wasn't wrong, he was in my seat, he wasn't wrong either, he could have answered in a nicer way. his wrong wasn't because he sat in my place, it was his own fucked up attitude to begin with.
i don't know how this will end up, but we're all classmates, however this ends up it won't be nice.
thankfully, yan didn't hit him back, it wouldn't be to her aid if she did.
and i kinda told other one of my classmates off because of this. he was saying "i don't even want to bother myself with this, its because they're childish thats why they fought. i don't even want to care."
i told him, we're all friends, even not close, yan is your friend. the least you can do is ask about her, not say shit like this.
that dude didn't even bother to ask, and i don't care if you don't care about her, just don't say things like this when you dont' have a clue whats going on. who are you to call someone childish when you don't exactly act mature either.
so in that case, if it was him who was quite helplessly getting his head rammed against the wall, are we all just gonna walk off saying thats childish, even though its your friend?
fuck.
i hope karma is real and everyone gets what they've given someone else.