help!

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this is me


help me please!
i have blonde underneath
but i look terrible in that pic so here is a better one of my face. its from a few months ago


i want to get my hair cut, but i dont know how or if i should or just keep growing it out.
help?
here is what i've been thinking




any other pics or any suggestions would be GREAT