Long time, no write
Getting behind on updating my journal, along with reading everyone elses, can cause a snowball effect. Each day longer makes it harder to do.
So many things are in motion right now, mostly for the best:
I'm permanently moving into my fourplex.
I'm having a friend move in with me.
I'm renting my room out at my house so I don't have two mortgage payments.
My very first tenant is moving in this coming Monday.
My very second tenant is moving in the following Monday.
My second tenant is related to the first tenant and the rent is paid by the government.
By mid-December or January I should finally start being in the green.
I'm selling my house to my ex, Chris. He's gonna buy me out. He's co-owner, but most of the equity is mine.
Events that have taken place over the past month:
I went on an offical date with Hot Beefy Nachos. He took me to a nice restaurant and then danced with me at a gay club. He then took me home and had his way with me. The next day was very mellow. We swapped full body massages, got some lunch, did more sexcapades, and napped at my place for a few hours. I really like him. It's a good thing he's not available or I'd do something stupid and marry him.
I went on a couple of mini-dates with Mauricio. I met some of his friends, of which several have an accent like him. He may be moving to New York in a few months. We saw El Crimen Perfecto last month, which was really entertaining.
I met a new friend, Albert, who will be my new roommate. We've fooled around also, but have both agreed that that can't happen when we are roommates.
I met Hot Beefy Nacho's boyfriend last weekend at a gay club. He shook my hand and said, "Oh, you're Kip." We talked for a little bit. He knows I've befriended his boyfriend, but not to the extent. Normally I'd have stayed away from the whole thing, but it's something I found out after the fact and they pretty much live separate lives now. As long as there's no drama, I'm still on board with Nachos. There's something about him, physically and emotionally, that keep me wanting more.
I've talked to and seen my ex, Jorge, more often. He wants to snuggle sometime, but I don't think that will ever happen again, especially after he and my other ex slept together. I also don't want any drama stirred up again, so I've kept him at arms length. He's been good about respecting that.
I met up a couple of times with my friend Rudolpho to go dancing. I hadn't seen him in a while (I think since the incident with Jorge). He's such a happy guy. I need more happy, laid-back people in my life.
I grinded the ass of a really big fat chic at a gay club. It was fun.
I got extremely stoned off my ass on some high quality stuff; and I never smoke that shit.
I've gone out many, many times with my friend non-ex Jorge and his boyfriend Frank. We've had lots of fun at the clubs.
So many things are in motion right now, mostly for the best:
I'm permanently moving into my fourplex.
I'm having a friend move in with me.
I'm renting my room out at my house so I don't have two mortgage payments.
My very first tenant is moving in this coming Monday.
My very second tenant is moving in the following Monday.
My second tenant is related to the first tenant and the rent is paid by the government.
By mid-December or January I should finally start being in the green.
I'm selling my house to my ex, Chris. He's gonna buy me out. He's co-owner, but most of the equity is mine.
Events that have taken place over the past month:
I went on an offical date with Hot Beefy Nachos. He took me to a nice restaurant and then danced with me at a gay club. He then took me home and had his way with me. The next day was very mellow. We swapped full body massages, got some lunch, did more sexcapades, and napped at my place for a few hours. I really like him. It's a good thing he's not available or I'd do something stupid and marry him.
I went on a couple of mini-dates with Mauricio. I met some of his friends, of which several have an accent like him. He may be moving to New York in a few months. We saw El Crimen Perfecto last month, which was really entertaining.
I met a new friend, Albert, who will be my new roommate. We've fooled around also, but have both agreed that that can't happen when we are roommates.
I met Hot Beefy Nacho's boyfriend last weekend at a gay club. He shook my hand and said, "Oh, you're Kip." We talked for a little bit. He knows I've befriended his boyfriend, but not to the extent. Normally I'd have stayed away from the whole thing, but it's something I found out after the fact and they pretty much live separate lives now. As long as there's no drama, I'm still on board with Nachos. There's something about him, physically and emotionally, that keep me wanting more.
I've talked to and seen my ex, Jorge, more often. He wants to snuggle sometime, but I don't think that will ever happen again, especially after he and my other ex slept together. I also don't want any drama stirred up again, so I've kept him at arms length. He's been good about respecting that.
I met up a couple of times with my friend Rudolpho to go dancing. I hadn't seen him in a while (I think since the incident with Jorge). He's such a happy guy. I need more happy, laid-back people in my life.
I grinded the ass of a really big fat chic at a gay club. It was fun.
I got extremely stoned off my ass on some high quality stuff; and I never smoke that shit.
I've gone out many, many times with my friend non-ex Jorge and his boyfriend Frank. We've had lots of fun at the clubs.