Ran across an interesting "article" this morning
http://www.livejournal.com/community/polyrelations/19641.html It actually follows along rather closely with a lot of ideas I have and I know there are several people who read my LJ that will be interested in this.
For those I talked to last night (and a few days ago) may want to check what I consider the sane polyamory communities
bipolypagangeek and
compersion and if your furry,
poly_furriesTwice the info, Half the drama of those brand name polyamory lj communities *giggle*