Oct 31, 2015 14:54
A compliment does
!= hitting on you
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So, while she could have been a little nicer about it, it sounds like she was not welcome to conversation. Only twice have I received non-creepy in person compliments(I could even say, genuine compliments with no hidden meaning) from men in my adult life. I remember both of them. I have forgotten most of the creepers, because it's just too common. So, I'm sorry for your male friend, but she didn't consent to being engaged in the conversation and she wanted an immediate out. Sounds like she got it.
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I will also note that I haven't yet been misinterpreted the way this guy may have been, perhaps because I don't voice these things indiscriminately, but only when someone seems likely to receive it in the spirit in which I intend it.
These human interaction things aren't as algorithmic as some folks think, or pretend, or wish, them to be.
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